Sankie traits

[2LeftFeet]

I'm asking ---- they don't care how they get the money as long as they get it--is that correct? if mary lou is sending the money from Western Union from XXXXX He is fine with that. If Shirley comes down every 3 months and treats him like the king and nothing else is going on for him-- but she never sends money he's fine with that too---- as long as he knows that when she leaves she will give him 1,500 sympathy pesos...

Or no that won't be find with him he just wants the bucks coming in and once they stop--- tootles--- he's not going to care about every three months receiving $1,500 peso.

 

[shadInToronto]

I'm asking ---- they don't care how they get the money as long as they get it--is that correct? if mary lou is sending the money from Western Union from XXXXX He is fine with that. If Shirley comes down every 3 months and treats him like the king and nothing else is going on for him-- but she never sends money he's fine with that too---- as long as he knows that when she leaves she will give him 1,500 sympathy pesos...

Or no that won't be find with him he just wants the bucks coming in and once they stop--- tootles--- he's not going to care about every three months receiving $1,500 peso.

Think of it like a salesman ... he wants the customer's PO and will do everything/anything to get it and keep it open, which means moolah for him so he's happy. If the customer retracts it, he continues to make sales calls/visits hoping the customer will issue another PO ... similarly, sankies/sankiettes have a service (SEX) for sale and they are willing to sell it to all potential customers/clients. :bunny:

 

[marliejaneca]

Yes, you can...

Can you actually PLAY a sankie? If you know what's going on and you actually like the person you could play them. Don't send them money but when you go down there throw them a couple of bucks, take them out to dinner have your fun and let it be. Or would they not go for that? or would they take anything they could get-- they have no pride?

That is what we have been trying to tell woman all these years.

If you are the type of person that is attracted to these type of men called sankies, go have your fun, and leave it at that. If you go back, repeat step one, and leave it at that again!

Do not send money, do not get caught up in the Caribbean romantic atmosphere, do not think that you are the only one, just go and enjoy your time. What happens on the island, stays on the island!

Just think of it as a glorified escort service that you are paying for!

Marlie

 

[Audra]

Can you actually PLAY a sankie? If you know what's going on and you actually like the person you could play them. Don't send them money but when you go down there throw them a couple of bucks, take them out to dinner have your fun and let it be. Or would they not go for that? or would they take anything they could get-- they have no pride?

If you played a sankie, what would you get out of it? You don't give him money, you maybe buy a couple of drinks, but what are you trying to get out of them. They don't care, you live so far away, what can you do to them? Also, they move around resorts so often, you'd never be able to find them. (unless you know their friends).

So ask yourself, what's the point of playing a sankie, they have nothing to
offer. except sex, if that's what you're looking for.

 

[mountainfrog]

Pride?

... or would they take anything they could get-- they have no pride?

Whom is the question directed to?

Sankies take pride in getting another notch on their gun.

Gringas don't care about pride - don't have time for that.
Two weeks is not much in this race to get laid. :bunny:

m'frog

 

[2LeftFeet]

So, if you're not sending money, or once the green card doesn't come through-- the game is over for them-- they will move on. At first they might persist but when the "funds are low" one too many times--- the game is OVER!!!!

What do they do with person on the other end that hasn't gotten that they've been sankifed--Not return phone calls?? Change the number? Are they man/woman enough to say--I 'm not interested????

I deal with cons games very frequently I would like to understand this one better.

 

[2LeftFeet]

The pride question was

Sankies have no pride. The gringa and the sankie get together in beautiful DR. They make made passionate love under the moonlight on day 2. Day 4 tragically, there has been a motorconcho accident and the sankies brother needs money for his operation. Gringa says --no funds are low and I thought that our relationship wasn't about that.

Does the sankie continue?---or would he not waste his time? Would he try to taper it off?

 

[AnnaC]

So, if you're not sending money, or once the green card doesn't come through-- the game is over for them-- they will move on. At first they might persist but when the "funds are low" one too many times--- the game is OVER!!!!

What do they do with person on the other end that hasn't gotten that they've been sankifed--Not return phone calls?? Change the number? Are they man/woman enough to say--I 'm not interested????

I deal with cons games very frequently I would like to understand this one better.

You have to understand that they are not dealing with only one person at a time but many so it's always more beneficial if one is friendly and nice to all potential clients.

One didn't give money or get him a visa but be nice anyway because you never know. Make 10 calls per day or week maybe he can't even remember your face but he has you on the list. What harm is it to a sankie to have an on going costumer list. A drink, a present, anything will do it all adds up when you're working on so many.

Some tourists will go home and forget them but as long as they have your number, msn username or whatever it's good business to keep in touch with all. You never know when one will pay off in a big way

Oh wait
You mean the person that has been sankified? Does it make any different if they know it or not? They get hurt, lose money and worse of all a lots of heartache

 

[2LeftFeet]

It's like cold calling in big business-- eventually someone will let you in! I'm understanding now!

My second question was about the victim-- what happens when she realizes that she has been duped-- I'm sure most if not all go away-- she's embarassed and hurt but there has to be times where it get's FUGLY.

 

[Big_Al]

:cheeky: (laughing histerical) It appears that some people in here speak from experience. I've actually seen them in Boca Chica go to work on European tourists. and I've also seen older European men w/young Dominican boys.

 

[Kyle]

men w/boys ? that's deep....

 

[Audra]

It's like cold calling in big business-- eventually someone will let you in! I'm understanding now!

My second question was about the victim-- what happens when she realizes that she has been duped-- I'm sure most if not all go away-- she's embarassed and hurt but there has to be times where it get's FUGLY.

Some get over it and move on, others come on DR1 and go on and on complaining, some don't accept it and keep hope. It all depends on the individual. If it got "Fugly" what could happen? It would cost you money to get back down there, and then what? You tell him off? You slap him? I don't know, is it worth the time off work, the money to fly down there? I don't think there is any form of revenge that would be acceptable to the victim. That is why people post in the sankie forum, to share experiences and hopefully warn potential victims.

That's my opinion.

 

[2LeftFeet]

Well just got back from Santo Domingo-- Didn't have a great time but that's another story all together.

Anyway--kept my eyes open to see what everyone could possible be talking about. Don't want to stereotype or generalize-- true love could be a happening but wow--- it's all over the place!!!! and it's QUITE obvious! Nothing like sticking out like a sore thumb!!!!

People do LOOK because it's so obvious-- I wanted to go up to this one woman and say" Girlfriend what are you doing?"
My God, I can't imagine her parent's reaction if she every brought him home.

The woman are just as obvious-- Oh My GOD-- Can you spell PUTA!