Chris has been around and he knows what he wants.
Maybe he isn`t attracted to the chicas he could score for free or maybe he isn`t into using and dumping them.
He likes to eat good food in decent restaurants and go to nice night clubs.
Living like a local is not everybody`s idea of a great vacation.
Just do you.
Greydread Bronxboy and Mailbook have all made valid remarks.
When I go on these trips I go with the intention to purchase a romp. I am not crazy about paying for companionship or having to pay double for daily expenses unless the situation calls for it.
If by chance I meet a local girl and we hit it off then it's a wonderful thing. If not it's nice to know I have the budget and services readily available to me. That is what I base a trip on.....a sure thing! Sosua was great in this regard but I'm done with it for now.
I would be walking around all day taking pictures checking out mercados eating in local places....getting a feel for the place. I am a new yorker that likes to explore different cultures. The whole dominican caribbean thing is extremely appealing to me. My knowledge of tipco music and bachata is above average for a guero como yo. Unfortunately I am not a big drinker...more of a cheech and chong dude (not in the DR for sure!) so endless night of boozing are of no interest to me. Hiking culture and being outdoors in the beautiful DR is what I am looking for. Add a chica a day to the mix and life is good. Lets not forget some hot tostones con sal.
The online dating thing is a great idea. Although my inspiration for online dating has weened over the past few years. I'd like to think I can handle face to face social interactions at this point
* There is a point where you have to weigh the positives/negatives when choosing a destination. A few years ago places were a lot cheaper to visit so it was a no brainer..."Yes, go there and you will have fun". These days you really need to do your homework. Whatever I decide to do I will be dropping a few grand on a trip like this. The question is what do you get for it and are you happy with what you get ?