I am not looking to change the country... Maybe just to help him. But I am not going to stay at his place....ugh!! I rent a nice condo with hot water and windows, unlike his "apartment" without hot water, a litchen or windows...and I help pay for his english classes so he can build his business (computer and telephone repair).I'm surprised at all tellin him to just pay her da money, think of the chica & her social "condition.". How is there going to be a real change in your country if ur just forking it over? Ah, but as many have said, "that's how it is.".
When I am here, I pay... Well, actually, I slip him the $rd in cash before we go out so he can feel like a man and pay when we go out.... This is a guy who used to work at an AI and now is working hard to work for himself. If I can treat him when I am here, why not?? It may not mean a lot in the grand scheme... But he sure enjoys it
Ella