I will keep it simple. Does she appreciate what you have done for her and her kids, NO. Will that change once she has the baby (once you have prove it is yours) NO. You have already done way too much and she seems to be very comfortable thinking you will continue to do so, hence the non answering of her (yours) cell phone. If the baby is yours then support the baby the best way you can and that is it. Let her figure out the rest.
The OP is long gone, probably not without a slight headache. Looking for love is always a bad idea. Looking for it in a foreign culture in a foreign land is an even worse idea. Real love never comes to those who seek it. Only charletains seeking to capitalize on their perceived need that has turned into a real weakness. No. Real love sneaks into our lives when we're not looking and by the time we recognize it it's usually too late to do anything about it. This is why it's so important to position ourselves well socially. This doesn't mean surround ourselves with rich people or middle class people. It means we must aspire to surround ourselves with
good people just in case love sneaks in the bedroom window.
Romantic love is a distraction that few can afford. It's the roller coaster ride. They're a lot of fun but it ain't easy living on one.
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