why would you reflexively assume that i had to have brought a woman in my luggage, and a Jamaican woman at that? and why do you assume i am cohabiting with anyone at the moment?
is the concept of an unattached person that much of an oddity these days? and why would you conclude that if i am in the DR, and i am attached, then my significant other must be a Dominican? what if i am with an expat from any of a number of countries? how about a Venezuelan? a Haitian, perhaps? the possibilities are legion...
Well, yes, it’s an oddity these days, as your current situation reinforced the normality, because you are in fact married. So in this case my assumption was correct, although not with a Dominicana as you claim, it’s not. Is your wife Jamaican?
I assumed when heterosexual man decides to live and become an ex-pat in the DR, the native women there become a predominate factor in that decision. But, again, that may be just my mindset!
Also, what I was alluding to earlier and was getting at, was that here you are writing all negative about lonely men from the states or whatever, being inadequate to find a suitable mate where they came from, and can’t possibly be adequate and capable enough of finding a suitable mate in the DR. (I’m paraphrasing, your main points)
TheGorgon, I gotten this from reading your thread responses--- you telling others where they should or should not look for a suitable wife, that they may feel can make them happy for the duration of their life, and perhaps they, the foreigner should find or look for their wife in their own country.
First off, we are all adults and free agents here. Even more so if you are from the USA with an active passport. With that being said, there’s no one on this planet that can tell me where I should or shouldn’t go regarding looking for my dream come true wife. So if it happens to be in the DR (which it is), then it’s the DR. That’s final say, on that matter.
Can I get a suitable wife, in the USA, of course I can personally, but again, I don’t want an American wife. The whole environmental and negative atmosphere that permeates the USA is not something I would like to have, while I’m also married there too, in the USA. That kind of negativity sometimes breeds negativity in day to day marriage life.
But, alas, the DR is a whole different story altogether, living on an island surrounded by the most beautiful women on this planet. Although, If I’m going the marriage route with one Dominicana in particular, I’d need to refrain from staring at these other Dominican beauties.
Does the DR have its problems!? They most certainly do, in some case worst than the US’s problems. But If and when I’m choosing to reside in the DR, it’s basically choosing the less of two evils.
