Hello Shalena. I just read through this thread, and have one observation/suggestion for you that others either overlooked or just don't understand. That includes even AZB who knows almost everything, but probably hasn't experienced this situation. (with all due respect AZB).
The DR culture is macho, but the ABSOLUTE most macho place in the DR is the police station. You may be very independent, but a woman should NEVER go to the police station without a man. (I'm not being a sexist pig, I am telling you the reality of the DR).
WOMEN DON'T GO TO THE POLICE STATION ALONE, let alone as a foreign woman. (except maybe in the case of spousal abuse)
The first time I had an accident, I had to go to the Palacio de Policia in Santo Domingo to file my report. Not having much Spanish, I thought I made a prudent choice to take along my secretary. She was an educated, self-confident, upper-middle class young lady and I thought she knew the ropes pretty well (I guess she had never had a reason to come there before).
We got to the front door on the front steps of the Palacio, and a lowly police corporal reduced her to tears in about 30 seconds, telling her "this is no place for women - you're not coming in here, just go away and go to somewhere women belong". I had never seen anyone cow her before, but he sure did a good job of it. Luckily, I called someone else to come down and come in with me, and everything was fine.
You don't need some colonel to suck up to and to stand up for you. If you need to go to the police station, next time, look for a neighbor's husband who is considered by all to be a "serio" to go with you. Being considered to be a serio has nothing to do with money or possessions, but on how they conduct their life. Explain what's going on, and ask him to come and help you. It might cost you a batch of cookies afterwards as a thank you.
If you don't know anyone close by, then ask for the owner (if not the owner, then at least a man who is a jefe in the company) of your security company to come with you. He has probably had experience dealing with the police, and he probably (or should) know the local jefe. They can talk among themselves and resolve this problem for you. Do not become part of this discussion, just sit down in one of the plastic chairs inside the door of the police station and be quiet and smile, even if you have to bite your tongue repeatedly).
The police could care less about foreigners, especially Americans, if they don't conduct business in the normal Dominican way. Swallow your pride, and your independence , in this situation, and try doing it "their way". The problem might just go away if the guy from your security company tells them that his men have security under control in your area, and thanks for their extra patrols, but they really aren't necessary, but if something big happens, the first person they will contact is el jefe directly....