I don't live in Santo Domingo and I will judge it as I see fit. I do live in the DR. I have to visit Santo Domingo to accomplish some asinine and/or ridiculous things the DR government forces me to do and also on occasion visit members of the family that are there.
Every time I enter Santo Domingo, I cannot wait until I return home to the north coast.
I used to think exactly the same every time I entered Pedro Brand or joined Autopista Las Americas........until I moved into an apartment in one of the many nice areas in National District. I am here because of a need to be mobile for business internally and with an airport nearby getting me to the islands, Miami and onwards, and Panama. I have thought about relocating to Punta Cana because the flights are even better but that would be at a loss of the wide variety of things to do in SDO which is also where my young lady studies. But PC is isolated at one end of the island so SDO wins hands down.
The traffic and apparent chaos on the roads distorts ones views. Spend time in the central areas with all the modern amenities, new torres and a younger growing affluent society and it is different, and to add to that one is relatively close by road to all worthwhile parts of the country (East Coast and La Romana c 2hours, Samana/LT c 2 hours, Mountains c 1.5 hours, Bonao and rios 1 hour South West c 2.5 hours) for a weekend break.
SDO has surprised me and is no way a ghetto on the large part........the outskirts were so impoverished when I first visited back in 1983 with cardboard dwellings along side the old Duarte road to Santiago. Even some of the poorer barrios aren't that bad by world standards and certainly don't discourage me from passing through.
I am a country boy at heart and I no doubt will retire to the country....the campo here......and still exploring where.