The oldest wants to go back, never changed and he's the only one with (slight) memories of living there (was four when we left). The second and third say they want to live in Holland but I know for the second one it's going to be hard. She's the most Dominican of the children. Loves to talk (and hardly speaks Dutch). Very close to her grandmother here who spoils her.
What worries me here is their education, what worries me there is how they will adapt to Dutch education.
My daughter was 9 last year when I returned to Holland and she's real Latina, now she's fluent in Dutch and she has adapted very well, better than I have.
Kids will adapt very easy so what's the problem?
I miss the Latin life and even though I'm not really happy here, for my daughter it was the best thing I could do so I say fukk it!