I guess it's safe to say that my post on the last page, had zero effect on all of you battling away and calling each other names.
So be it.
So be it.
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what a bunch of crap! Really,where do you find the time for these games?
I am --over and out.
rocky - i agree with you completely. unfortunately, shad has taken an keen interest in this thread and cant seem to contain himself.
i am just defending myself!
as i said, my issue with my supposed sanky has been resolved!!! i never once said he was a boyfriend nor did i insinuate anything would happen. i came here to see if i could figure out what his MO was and i have thanks to all of the great posts and PMs people sent me.
now its just a battlefield with a few people with a lot of time on their hands!!
i am just defending myself!
as i said, my issue with my supposed sanky has been resolved!!! i never once said he was a boyfriend nor did i insinuate anything would happen. i came here to see if i could figure out what his MO was and i have thanks to all of the great posts and PMs people sent me.
now its just a battlefield with a few people with a lot of time on their hands!!
It?s everytime the same play!
Only the tourists change in the stories.
But there are a lot of women too, who are sankies!
My dominican "girlfriend" was a sankie too, the most tourist will be blind for love.
I had closed my eyes too. And it was only a play. The most sankies plays this so good, they could work in hollywood.
I can only say for everybody who means to love somebody from there, attencion, 90 % from the people there who say that they love you, wants only your money!
Sorry my english is not so good, i come from europe...
Only the tourists change in the stories.
But there are a lot of women too, who are sankies!
My dominican "girlfriend" was a sankie too, the most tourist will be blind for love.
I had closed my eyes too. And it was only a play. The most sankies plays this so good, they could work in hollywood.
I can only say for everybody who means to love somebody from there, attencion, 90 % from the people there who say that they love you, wants only your money!
Sorry my english is not so good, i come from europe...
19 - 26
Well, you know and I know, that age does not have anything to do with these business romances.
On the women's part, first it's the sex drive, later it's the urge to care for the brood ("Brutpflegetrieb").
The brain is not involved in either type of relationship.
BTW, experience shows that the most vulnerable age bracket is 19 to 26... and then again 45 - unlimited. :tired: :laugh:
Janin
Well, you know and I know, that age does not have anything to do with these business romances.
On the women's part, first it's the sex drive, later it's the urge to care for the brood ("Brutpflegetrieb").
The brain is not involved in either type of relationship.
BTW, experience shows that the most vulnerable age bracket is 19 to 26... and then again 45 - unlimited. :tired: :laugh:
Janin
Add On
Thus...
I love you... )
I need you... ) r money. :bunny:
I want you... )
Janin
Thus...
I love you... )
I need you... ) r money. :bunny:
I want you... )
Janin
He actually doesn't have any. he's the clown around here and thinks he's needed to entertain the lurkers. I delete many of his posts but it gets tiresome sometimes. Just ignore him and he'll have nothing to go with.
Thanks Anna!!!
I am happy to see that people have been posting useful information!!!
i could see how my situation could have gone seriously wrong!
when i originally wrote i was like hhmmmm...maybe yes maybe no!!!
but someone posted an amazing post that made perfect sense (to me, in my case), that realistically if this happened to me here in Canada, I would be far from interested!! I would instantly think he was crazy for wanting so much so soon!!!
I wont say love at first doesnt exist and people have never experienced it (talking in general and not about myself) but given the circumstances, it is more likely than not to be the case for me!!!
I wont sit here and say that he doesnt have (potentially have) alterior motives but i wont say he is a bad person either (if that makes any sense. i will try to explain...) he was very nice with me and my friend and i had the chance to see more than i would have had i not met him and we had a lot of fun! and i have that to be thankful for.
keep the posts coming!!! for me the most confusing, is the red flags: how to identify them if they arent that clear... but for sure the best one is 'i love you' after a few days.
I am happy to see that people have been posting useful information!!!
i could see how my situation could have gone seriously wrong!
when i originally wrote i was like hhmmmm...maybe yes maybe no!!!
but someone posted an amazing post that made perfect sense (to me, in my case), that realistically if this happened to me here in Canada, I would be far from interested!! I would instantly think he was crazy for wanting so much so soon!!!
I wont say love at first doesnt exist and people have never experienced it (talking in general and not about myself) but given the circumstances, it is more likely than not to be the case for me!!!
I wont sit here and say that he doesnt have (potentially have) alterior motives but i wont say he is a bad person either (if that makes any sense. i will try to explain...) he was very nice with me and my friend and i had the chance to see more than i would have had i not met him and we had a lot of fun! and i have that to be thankful for.
keep the posts coming!!! for me the most confusing, is the red flags: how to identify them if they arent that clear... but for sure the best one is 'i love you' after a few days.
Too Soon
Don't blame them for that.
Time is limited (normally: Europeans 2 weeks, North Americans 1 week) and it's mainly the sankie apprentices playing the trump cards too soon.
The slow approach of a learned sankie has done in many a PhD, lawyer, psychologist (them and teachers make perfect victims, BTW :laugh: ), etc.
Janin
Don't blame them for that.
Time is limited (normally: Europeans 2 weeks, North Americans 1 week) and it's mainly the sankie apprentices playing the trump cards too soon.
The slow approach of a learned sankie has done in many a PhD, lawyer, psychologist (them and teachers make perfect victims, BTW :laugh: ), etc.
Janin
Pue' claro que no.....
Ever heard of "get to know first, bang later?". Of course NOT!.
All I was trying to say was that you are so DELUSIONAL that you probably didn't realize to whom you were sending that PM!.
All I can tell you is that in a few years, you would NOT even remember his face (or all the others faces).
But I do hope you got tested and if you did NOT, at least be a good kid and call him so HE can get tested!!. Wink, wink!!.
Anna: please let get something straight:
I do NOT detest crapch, er, bachata. I have a preference and my preference is to listen to bachatas from Merengueros, people that do NOT record ONLY bachatas!.
How can I expect you to get embarrassed to send me a PM when you are NOT embarrassed to say you spent a week with someone you met the same day and want to make us believe he is better than a Junior's Cheesecake?.
Ever heard of "get to know first, bang later?". Of course NOT!.
All I was trying to say was that you are so DELUSIONAL that you probably didn't realize to whom you were sending that PM!.
All I can tell you is that in a few years, you would NOT even remember his face (or all the others faces).
But I do hope you got tested and if you did NOT, at least be a good kid and call him so HE can get tested!!. Wink, wink!!.
Anna: please let get something straight:
I do NOT detest crapch, er, bachata. I have a preference and my preference is to listen to bachatas from Merengueros, people that do NOT record ONLY bachatas!.
No, no!!! You were advised earlier in this thread of the warning signs, yet you continue like a 'broken record'. I didn't insult you in any previous posts, so why the need to claim 'damsel in distress'? Unless your objective is to bring attention to yourself.
Yes it's serious and that's why he asked whether you were tested. That's good advice, IMO.
That's a nice innocent post. Well done and congratulations.
Ouuuuuchhh, que tronpon!....
The guy is a Saint compared to me and I can only imagine YOUR opinion of me!.
PLEEESE don't tell me as I have a good idea, whahahahahaha!!.
Ooooh the insanity!!.
ConDom:
"Here's a quarter, call someone who cares".... Like YOUR Sankie!!!. Wahahaha!.
Perhaps you can use 20 cents for the call and the other 5 cents to buy yourself A CLUE!.
No, only YOUR TinySmall brain thought I wished AIDS on someone!.
Ooooh, and before I forget;
BOOOOO!!.
To be honest, you all, this girl's posts are getting more boring and boring by the minute!. It's no fun to reply to her anymore.
I mean, how can you show a blind person how NOT to bump into things!!.
Thanks SantoMiguel I don't share your opinion of Shad!.
The guy is a Saint compared to me and I can only imagine YOUR opinion of me!.
PLEEESE don't tell me as I have a good idea, whahahahahaha!!.
Ooooh the insanity!!.
ConDom:
"Here's a quarter, call someone who cares".... Like YOUR Sankie!!!. Wahahaha!.
Perhaps you can use 20 cents for the call and the other 5 cents to buy yourself A CLUE!.
No, only YOUR TinySmall brain thought I wished AIDS on someone!.
Ooooh, and before I forget;
BOOOOO!!.
To be honest, you all, this girl's posts are getting more boring and boring by the minute!. It's no fun to reply to her anymore.
I mean, how can you show a blind person how NOT to bump into things!!.
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it is a statement of fact!!! not intended as anything but that!
and shad whats the point if i don't dig???? why just scratch the surface when there is so much more underground??? fine you say its black or white, but what about the people who see grey?? not every one sees things from YOUR perspective or as fast as you would like.
if people stopped posting enough, broken record, blah blah blah, maybe other people who have something to post and the conversation wouldn't get so off track!
and shad whats the point if i don't dig???? why just scratch the surface when there is so much more underground??? fine you say its black or white, but what about the people who see grey?? not every one sees things from YOUR perspective or as fast as you would like.
if people stopped posting enough, broken record, blah blah blah, maybe other people who have something to post and the conversation wouldn't get so off track!
THEN MIGUEL, HERES THE IDEA OF THE CENTURY ---- STOP REPLYING!!!!
you are the broken record...
you are the one getting on people's nerves...
and you voluntarily read the posts.
if you arent happy with them, dont read them.
no one has a gun to your head. dont tell me you feel bad for the girls, that you wanna help... because YOU DON'T!
you are the broken record...
you are the one getting on people's nerves...
and you voluntarily read the posts.
if you arent happy with them, dont read them.
no one has a gun to your head. dont tell me you feel bad for the girls, that you wanna help... because YOU DON'T!
This has been by far the best post in this thread. I might make this a stickie.
To the original poster. Keep reading and watching and you'll learn about the red flags.
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