The point is that he wasn't a rapist, though he did ordered the torture and killings of some people plus stole/expropiated property throughout the country.
According to his daughter which still lives in Miami, Fl; one day she reprimanded him when she found out of his sexual adventures. Afterwards she became more understanding of the many women that sexually offered themselves to him, many doing the inuendo right in front of her. They had no respects for anybody except his wife, but she was known to have quite a character.
Believe it or not, plenty fathers considered an honor to offer their daughters to him.
Except for the fathers offering their daughters, many Dominicans today would probably go through a similar shock considering how rife cheating is in the country, Many men even have multiple families and the women know each other or at least are aware of the others existence. One man having children from multiple women. Etc, etc, etc. There is a reason why most Dominican households are with single parent, usually single mothers.