Hope the CAIPS notes arrive soon, if they can be of any help at all, a little is better than nothing!
Good luck to everyone who is going for an interview soon! I think it is unfair, as you have all said as well, that something like this lies in the hands of someone else. Try and stay positive and strong! Your husbands love you lots and speaking from their hearts will prove that!
Like sangria said, the more they have made you wait, the more time you have had to build your relationship and learn even more. I hope you all get to start doing that, as a family living together soon!