I just wanted to say hello I am also in Michigan and in Detroit. I also met a guy in the DR last march of 2010 and I have been in love ever since then. We text everyday and talk about once a week. I just got back from there for the 2nd time and spent another week with him at a Resort together this last time. I just heard about this site and started reading and must say we have alot in common. I speak little spanish and he speaks very little english. I am so freaked out now about if he is real and true I do not know what to think... Nothing has really happened to make me believe that he is a fake but of course because of the distance between us I guess how would I really now if he were? I have applied for the K-1 Fiance Visa and intended to marry him once he arrived but now I am wondering if I am just being stupid. I wish there was a way that I could find out if he is real and honest but I don't really know how to do that... Any info or comments would be appreciated!! Amy R
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Amy, tell us more about you and more about him. Your age, his age. Your job, his job. Your education, his education. How you met.
That info will help us to answer.
You might not be the first to meet a great Dominican guy, but if you met him at a resort where he works in Animation the odds of him being with you for money/visa/etc. multiplies by the second....
AE
Sumting tells me, a sock may have fallen off the clothes line while they were drying!
Go out in the real world wherever you live, have some fun with friends, go to the pub, go to the gym or other social gatherings and get yourself out of that 17 year old girl meets vacation boylover thingy?
I don't think many of these people have been in contract employment before judging by the voices. I've worked all over the world on contract and very rarely have I been able to speak the lingo. Being contracted usually means you are specialised and knowing the lingo is often not at all important. The company wants a job done, not a new friend, and if you are being contracted then it is unlikely they will know anything about your line other than they need it.
As far as relationships go, those who come here trying to find it usually end up getting stung. In working normal DR you will find loads of good strong relationships, both ways, it isn't unusual.
Ihave to agree if you met this guy on holiday then you are probably going to be in the middle of a big mistake, if you met him on a normal day to day circumstance then you have just as much luck as anywhere else in the world.
As far as relationships go, those who come here trying to find it usually end up getting stung. In working normal DR you will find loads of good strong relationships, both ways, it isn't unusual.
Ihave to agree if you met this guy on holiday then you are probably going to be in the middle of a big mistake, if you met him on a normal day to day circumstance then you have just as much luck as anywhere else in the world.
Sumting tells me, a sock may have fallen off the clothes line while they were drying!
What do you think my chances are to find myself a guy to lobe that doesn't speak English?
Oh never mind
Sounds too Italian. I've already had one of those and one in a lifetime is enough thanks.
I am curious about age. I have seen many dom/can relationships. They are real, they can work, and they can be great. But when you have a younger man, with a signifigantly older woman ... your chance of survivial is less than 5 %. Trust me, I've seen it. It might last a while, but not forever. My opinion, I've been wrong before.
Aren't you glad that you came across this site?
A little tough love from the board will make you realize that you are in for a big mistake.
I will move you to a new thread. The other thread is for successful relationships and updates.
You are not even close to there yet...
Good luck!
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You met him barely six months ago, seen him twice and already applied for a K-1 VISA and intend to marry him after just two weeks of being with him?
Are you that desperate?
Fast track to disaster!
The chances of Immigration giving their stamp of approval for this relationship in my opinion is less then nil. Even if the application is approved in the U.S., I doubt he will get pass U.S. Immigration interviewers in the D.R.
SantiagoDR
This is the same old story over and over again. At least that's what it sounds like without more details. From what little you've said so far... it looks like a mistake. But then, who am I to talk? I was married within 6 months of meeting my wife. But then, I didn't meet her while on vacation nor at a resort. And at the time I didn't live in a different country either... so we saw each other regularly (like 3-4 times a week). So... before you marry him, why not go and live close by to him for a few months first. I know it may sound crazy because you might be giving up family/friends/job/etc... but then I think that's a small price to pay to find out whether this is the guy you really want to marry. Because if he turns out to be a mistake... yikes! Divorce is expensive! Anyways... tell him you're gonna move there... and see what his reaction is. If he's legit, he'll be happy. If he's trying to take you for a ride, he'll try to talk you out of it... and if he does that... RUN!!!
Im totally agre with you in the last part, if you tell that person that you want to moved over there and the person put something to it, it means that person really wants her paper to come to United states or her whatever country.
You met him barely six months ago, seen him twice and already applied for a K-1 VISA and intend to marry him after just two weeks of being with him?
Are you that desperate?
Fast track to disaster!
The chances of Immigration giving their stamp of approval for this relationship in my opinion is less then nil. Even if the application is approved in the U.S., I doubt he will get pass U.S. Immigration interviewers in the D.R.
SantiagoDR
that seems to be in an fast track, it gives me to the creep.
You met him barely six months ago, seen him twice and already applied for a K-1 VISA and intend to marry him after just two weeks of being with him?
Are you that desperate?
Fast track to disaster!
The chances of Immigration giving their stamp of approval for this relationship in my opinion is less then nil. Even if the application is approved in the U.S., I doubt he will get pass U.S. Immigration interviewers in the D.R.
SantiagoDR
I'm with you Santiago, also if he's asking for cash or sudden "family emergencies" is another clue and an additional factor to the fast track to dissaster.
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