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Private Investigator
You dont need one if: A. its taking place in the DR. B. you are suspicious. Save your money and wait a bit. Give them plenty of rope and you will find out. Most cheaters are caught via cell phone or email. Plus what Matilda said. Maybe the money you save on not hiring a PI will enable you to make a "surprise" visit. You should watch a few episodes of the tv show "Cheaters" to steel your reserve and see what kinds of rotten dishonest behavior goes on.
You have received good advice do not waste your money on a PI. Read some past posts in the Mars Venus section that give excellent advice on how to discover the facts. If you are suspicious your probably correct already.
I knew someone who did that one time, hire a PI. Basically they paid someone for information that they really deep down inside already knew. Sometimes the warning signs are as plain as day but for some reason some people ignore them. 
there are tons of cheap surveillance equip with the money you will save(audio&video)or just break it off,si no hay confianza no hay na'
They cant just break it off without knowing the truth, its love. There is always that little teeny bit of hope that maybe they are wrong and its a series of extreme coincidences. Good luck, I hope this is the one is a million time and they have been completely faithful.
When did DR get an upgrade from 3rd world to 2nd world? lol.
Listen, if you're actually thinking your significant other is cheating, then you've answered your own question - he's cheating. Anything less than 100% trust shouldn't be tolerated. Snap out of it girlfriend and demand better!
or you can purchase software like Mobile Spy. It installs on the cell of the significant other and tells you everything, even gps locations of the phone. Its designed for parents who want to monitor their kids cell use. Its about $50 for three months. If you really want to get the goods on them. There are other programs that do basically the same thing. Scary, eh!! All you cheaters out there better beware, with the new technology, its harder than ever to be a rat! Heard an expression once that I liked, "you are only as sick as your secrets". Its not hard to put on a phone and you can go online and check it out.
Fidelity does not exist in this country. Not many others (if any) either. Don't worry about it. If you are in love, it's not really important. After all, you can do the same thing if you feel like it. Messing around with others has nothing to do with a good relationship and it will stop eventually if true love is there.
All you have to do is open a fake Facebook account, fake name, fake location, get a pic off of Google of a random chick (just a regular cute chick, not a super model), and send your boyfriend a friend request, get him chatting, flirt a bit and see what happens!! Yeah it's a little creepy and stalkerish but better then sitting around while you get played for a suker!
I agree with this post. I used to think that physical fidelity is important, but now I think finding true love means more than having someone who does not mess around. If people truly love each other - they can be loyal to each other without being necessarily faithful. Feelings are more important than other stuff. There is no need for you to investigate him - investigate yourself, do you really love him or not?
Yeah he's ex KGB and you know how those Russians (specially those living in The DR) can be trusted.:cheeky:
Eddy said it best.
Note to self: Don't leave your phone unattended nearby Zoomzx11...creepy.