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Without even knowing him there is a 99% chance of yes, yes and yes.
You might want to at least narrow this down to a city instead of a name and an entire country.
You might want to at least narrow this down to a city instead of a name and an entire country.
Ok, which B-Ball player isnt and got?
In order for a woman to be a Dominican Baseball player's 'bottom' (those of you who have HBO know what I mean) You had to be there from the beginning - when they were 12 and stuck with him all throughtout his starving and struggling days. After that, you will ride in the front of the Hummer, but let it be known that you WILL find condoms in the backseat.
BTW - Why are you asking? I dont want to jump the gun and actually respond as if you were asking for yourself.
In order for a woman to be a Dominican Baseball player's 'bottom' (those of you who have HBO know what I mean) You had to be there from the beginning - when they were 12 and stuck with him all throughtout his starving and struggling days. After that, you will ride in the front of the Hummer, but let it be known that you WILL find condoms in the backseat.
BTW - Why are you asking? I dont want to jump the gun and actually respond as if you were asking for yourself.
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You met him once and now what? You plan on marring him? Are you planning on carrying on a long distance relationship with this one meeting? Take it easy. Don't send money and if a relationship is going to develope you need to ask him these questions because he is the only one that knows the answers. If you don't trust him right off the bat ( no pun intended :laugh: ) then don't bother with him.
You met him once and now what? You plan on marring him? Are you planning on carrying on a long distance relationship with this one meeting? Take it easy. Don't send money and if a relationship is going to develope you need to ask him these questions because he is the only one that knows the answers. If you don't trust him right off the bat ( no pun intended :laugh: ) then don't bother with him.
Thanks - no, long story, but I met him only as an outside observer and just once. I liked him a lot when I met him -- it is my sister that is "in love" that has fallen for the lies. No money has been sent, but years have gone by while my sister gave herself to him while he was playing in the States. There have been calls from a woman claiming to be the wife and mother of his child. I want to get to the bottom of it if anyone know facts. I am so disturbed by this!
gfrend said:
I'm sorry to hear this. I feel for you watching your sister going through this but you know what? Even if you do find out the truth I can garantee that she won't listen. She'll tell you it's all made up to break them apart.
I don't know this man but I can tell you that many folks in the DR have family but have never officially gotten married but are still considered a wife.
Talldrink, that was an unusualy precise and well written opinion
I used to hang with a lot of the old Aguilas teams, and my daughter was the "madrina" . If you ever knew Tony Pe?a's wife, you would see your post in real life. She used to fry meat and tostones. And she would kill any woman young or old that even looked twice at Tony!! and they knew it fast. She was protecting her investment.
To the OP: Odds are he is playing your sister. It happens all the time.
Next time the wife calls, talk nice and find out where she is, what her number is and play the victim. "Gee, I didn't know. How can I help you? This is so terrible." and see what happens.
HB
I used to hang with a lot of the old Aguilas teams, and my daughter was the "madrina" . If you ever knew Tony Pe?a's wife, you would see your post in real life. She used to fry meat and tostones. And she would kill any woman young or old that even looked twice at Tony!! and they knew it fast. She was protecting her investment.
To the OP: Odds are he is playing your sister. It happens all the time.
Next time the wife calls, talk nice and find out where she is, what her number is and play the victim. "Gee, I didn't know. How can I help you? This is so terrible." and see what happens.
HB
DMAO said:
I am more than convinced that the other woman is at least living with him in the DR and has a child. She hasn't given money per se - if you do not count the transportation back and forth to games, the weekends away, the gifts, the running of errands, and the complete administration of anything that he had to do that required use of the English language. Mostly, though, it is a broken heart and humiliation. I am certain that the woman "back home" in the DR has felt that many times over, and I feel equally sorry for her. Thanks again for your input!