I have to say that your experience seems almost identical to my first experience with my fiance. I know I am naive but in many different ways my fiance seems just wonderful. I never accepted any money from him, but I never kissed him on my first visit and he was my tour guide too, is it all a big plan? I doubt it. It seems to me that if they wanted to take advantage of money or whatever then they would secure the romance with at least a kiss, like I said, I'm naive, but that is what makes sense to me. Like you, very soon he was saying how much he loved me, especially because of my morals.
Anyway, my experience was almost 2 years ago, since then I've returned twice and he's been here to UK once. I've met all his family, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, few who speak English but by my Fiances gestures and from what I can understand of Spanish he always seems to talk as if he's totally in love with me. The few who can speak English tell me what a good guy he is. I've accompanied him on tours and the Dominican girls there are all happy to meet me and tell me that they've seen my picture. Even at his bank, where I've been to change travellers cheques sometimes, the girls there know who I am, they ask him how long I'm there for and stuff, I can understand some Spanish but not a lot. I have had gifts from his aunties and cousins, everything seems just wonderful.
As for doing the same to other girls, I have access to his E-mail account and, I have to admit, I've gone through it with a fine toothed comb. I can't tell you I never found anything there that I didn't like, however, the stuff I did find I confronted him with and he could provide me with an explanation.
I can call him at any time and he always has time to talk to me, I never have any fear of him being with another girl. As for the money thing, he earns a very good wage and he has no desire to leave DR, I had to practically force him to come to UK. He's had opportunites to work overseas before but he never has accepted them. I can't prove that, obviously, but he's never crossed any lies, so I have no reason to doubt him.
I can just say positive things about him, if he is playing a game with me, then he's doing a grand job!! If he's playing a game it'd break my heart. But obviously now I've put an enormous amount of trust in him and in the relationship, I'm marrying him in July, he's preparing our new house right next to his aunties, wedding invitations are out already, I can't wait. I have to admit that seeing how identical our experiences are makes me a tiny bit concerned about if that could be a kind of formula, but I love this guy, I guess I'll just have to wait and see. Comment if you wish
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Anyway, my experience was almost 2 years ago, since then I've returned twice and he's been here to UK once. I've met all his family, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, few who speak English but by my Fiances gestures and from what I can understand of Spanish he always seems to talk as if he's totally in love with me. The few who can speak English tell me what a good guy he is. I've accompanied him on tours and the Dominican girls there are all happy to meet me and tell me that they've seen my picture. Even at his bank, where I've been to change travellers cheques sometimes, the girls there know who I am, they ask him how long I'm there for and stuff, I can understand some Spanish but not a lot. I have had gifts from his aunties and cousins, everything seems just wonderful.
As for doing the same to other girls, I have access to his E-mail account and, I have to admit, I've gone through it with a fine toothed comb. I can't tell you I never found anything there that I didn't like, however, the stuff I did find I confronted him with and he could provide me with an explanation.
I can call him at any time and he always has time to talk to me, I never have any fear of him being with another girl. As for the money thing, he earns a very good wage and he has no desire to leave DR, I had to practically force him to come to UK. He's had opportunites to work overseas before but he never has accepted them. I can't prove that, obviously, but he's never crossed any lies, so I have no reason to doubt him.
I can just say positive things about him, if he is playing a game with me, then he's doing a grand job!! If he's playing a game it'd break my heart. But obviously now I've put an enormous amount of trust in him and in the relationship, I'm marrying him in July, he's preparing our new house right next to his aunties, wedding invitations are out already, I can't wait. I have to admit that seeing how identical our experiences are makes me a tiny bit concerned about if that could be a kind of formula, but I love this guy, I guess I'll just have to wait and see. Comment if you wish
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