Hi! I just got back 3 days ago from an amazing vacation in Puerto Plata with my parents and my best friend. I'm a student at NYU, am attractive and good looking with no problem finding men in NY, ( i dont mean to toot my own horn), yet for some reason I'm having a hard time figuring out if I've fallen for a sankie story. My friend I was on vaca with and I are not into the club scene back home, but figured since we were on vacation, we should just have fun. We stayed at the resort the first few nights, but did all the daily activities because we enjoy making fools of ourselves, and there I met one animation/fun club worker...He didn't say anything out of the ordinary to me during the day, yet I also saw him at the hotel bar that night. he then proceeded to tell me he liked me and that he would have spoken to me earlier but he was afraid of my parents (especially my 6'2 father!) so then he told me he wanted me to go to a local club and that i should follow him there....he was gorgeous and was really light skinned with green eyes (not contacts lol), so i obviously wanted to go..we had made friends with a group of people our age (early 20's) from Jersey, so we were already hanging with them, so my best friend decided she didn't want to go to the club and wanted to stay with the Jersey crew instead. Fine by me, but nevertheless i was still sad we didn't go...the next night he found me again and kept saying he was sad that i didnt go, etc, sad all morning, all afternoon, etc.. that happened to be our last night, and we hadn't even danced together! he said how he liked me, wanted to kiss me, and for us to go to the club..but this time my friend just flat out said no ( i think he hated her at that point), but he said that he would be at the hotel's mini disco in a little...we were headed there anyway so we went, and he never showed up..a.t this point in was annoyed because i thought it was retaliation for me standing him up the night before (ha such NY thinking), so whatever. The next day we were leaving and i went to their area so i could by a CD i wanted and i saw him and he did nothing but apologize for not going to the mini disco, and how he still wanted to kiss me though, and how sweet i was..that's what made me think twice about him, he was more like a shy, sweet little boy that a smooth talking guy--he would actually blush when he told me he liked me, and would seem almost embarrassed that he was saying it.. we exchanged phone numbers and he did call me this morning telling me he'd call me later on tonight after the show. so after this whole long story (sorry!) im just a little confused---we didnt even kiss, obviously didnt sleep together, and i didnt even have a chance to be with him off the resort at a club to see if he would make me pay for drinks or not..we basically had no contact expect for during the day during water aerobics, dance lessons, and at the bar at night for like 30 mins...so what's the deal? i doubt he could genuinely want to be starting a relationship, but i haven't given him anything, and he hasn't given me anything to keep clinging for more....i mean i'm not gonna fall for the guy, i'm just in need of some insight please!