I am a Dominicana who has been living in NYC since I was six years old. I am 27 now. I am educated and have a great job at a not for profit legal services organization in Tribeca.
My entire life I have avoided Dominican men. My father was a successful attorney in Santo Domingo who loved younger women and went on to marry 5 times and have 8 children with 5 different women. Needless to say that is the reason I have avoided dating Dominican men. My mother moved to NYC when I was six to get away from and get over him.
I was in Santo Domingo a few weeks ago visiting my dad who was hospitalized. When my half-sister who lives there and works in insurance introduced me to a man named C. At first I was not impressed and actually only went out because she dragged me out. We went to a live concert en la Zona Colonial, and a couple of other places (Feros Cafe?) including Coppa (filled with "working ladies" and many of them Brazilian) which apparently is the only after hours place in Santo Domingo.
To make a long story short I am smitten. He is 11 years older than me and has a very high level position in an international latin american insurace brokerage firm. He travels to the US (NYC, Miami) often. He has already offered to fly me back to Santo Domingo just to accompany him to events (concerts, functions). I always decline citing work committments.
The problem is that he is married, unhappily so according to him. I have never ever dated a married man and I haven't picked up his calls in three days.
He is very gentle in his approach and because I do not answer my phone sends me brief and sweet emails throughout the day.
This is just a recipe for disaster right?
My entire life I have avoided Dominican men. My father was a successful attorney in Santo Domingo who loved younger women and went on to marry 5 times and have 8 children with 5 different women. Needless to say that is the reason I have avoided dating Dominican men. My mother moved to NYC when I was six to get away from and get over him.
I was in Santo Domingo a few weeks ago visiting my dad who was hospitalized. When my half-sister who lives there and works in insurance introduced me to a man named C. At first I was not impressed and actually only went out because she dragged me out. We went to a live concert en la Zona Colonial, and a couple of other places (Feros Cafe?) including Coppa (filled with "working ladies" and many of them Brazilian) which apparently is the only after hours place in Santo Domingo.
To make a long story short I am smitten. He is 11 years older than me and has a very high level position in an international latin american insurace brokerage firm. He travels to the US (NYC, Miami) often. He has already offered to fly me back to Santo Domingo just to accompany him to events (concerts, functions). I always decline citing work committments.
The problem is that he is married, unhappily so according to him. I have never ever dated a married man and I haven't picked up his calls in three days.
He is very gentle in his approach and because I do not answer my phone sends me brief and sweet emails throughout the day.
This is just a recipe for disaster right?