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Are you under any kind of financial obligation/contract? What would be the point, Preventing her from taking you to divorce court in the US, protecting your assets?. Or is it just revenge?
I'll take a wild guess and say, too late, but I'm not a lawyer. I suggest you talk to a lawyer in the US but don't throw good money after bad. I think that's how the saying goes.
Sorry
And because YOU were duped/played you now feel as though you have to get back at her??
What would be wrong about her coming to Bermuda or going to the US Mainland ....... Is she now a bad risk to the country - a worse risk than she was when she was your wife?
I am presuming that the 'school issues' related to her child or children from a different father rather than her personal schooling (i.e her being a teenager :ermm
? If she was responsible enough not to come to Bermuda so as to give her children a settled schooling before, why would she want to change that now? Wouldn't she have to get a visa for them too or do you think she will be leaving them behind? What has SHE said about now wanting to use her Visa/Green card? ~ Grahame.
When there is a lack of information to base a solid & reliable response on we sometimes HAVE to make assumptions. Having got THAT one out of the way (which if you know Dominican girls is quite a reasonable assumption to make) then we can progress and ask
"Who's idea was the divorce - yours or HER's?
Having once loved her, why the about turn now to wanting to get revenge on her? Just because of the fact that you got duped? :surprised ~ Grahame.
"Who's idea was the divorce - yours or HER's?
Having once loved her, why the about turn now to wanting to get revenge on her? Just because of the fact that you got duped? :surprised ~ Grahame.
Oh Honey,
Not sure if the visa can be cancelled, but you have already lost four years of your life on something you thought was real, only to find out, it wasn't. Why waste any more time, do you think for one second she will loose any sleep in knowing you are trying to cancel her visa ? the answer is no. When you are the one who has been used, you are also the only one who feels bad, sick, distraught over the situation. They do not care one way or the other, There is no way to get back anything, try to look to the future, Best of Luck.
Not sure if the visa can be cancelled, but you have already lost four years of your life on something you thought was real, only to find out, it wasn't. Why waste any more time, do you think for one second she will loose any sleep in knowing you are trying to cancel her visa ? the answer is no. When you are the one who has been used, you are also the only one who feels bad, sick, distraught over the situation. They do not care one way or the other, There is no way to get back anything, try to look to the future, Best of Luck.
If she is still in school, why not wait and see what her true intentions are when she does graduate. I would think that you would be happy that she wants to better herself for, maybe you. How long has she been with you and of this time, in school? Also how much time is left to graduation? You sound so angry for that reason alone. Is there more to it that you really do not want to discuss here? I don't know how you feel about this,but being in a relationship with an intelligent and educated woman is so much more rewarding than the other choice. Best of luck
i am sure you have read through the other postings about relationships on this board, if not, start reading, you are not alone, it sucks when it happens to us, you can not figure out why, but it did, so now you have to find out what you can do for yourself to make your life better.
carla
carla
Did you not see the previous post???? Shes got another man and this guy has been paying the bills!!!! Of course hes upset!
Read up on the numerous related threads in DR1 and you will probably realize the other guy has always been there,and you were used as a means to get to the USA, so that she can now help him out and possibly in the future get him to the states. Everyone cheats, its the name of the game.
It used to be that for a visa petioned by an American spouse, the foreigner had to live with the American citizen for two years consecutively in the United States. On the two year anniversary or thereafter, an appointment is needed to remove the conditional status of the visa, otherwise it will shorlty become valid. Did you go through this process? If she has in fact had the automatic conditional status removed it will be difficult to do anything. Also, permanent residency requires that one live in the US more than 6 mos. out of the year, it is possible that she could have a problem with this issue, but I don't know if you call the BCIS to report it if they would actually do anything. Nonetheless, I'm sorry you were duped, best of luck.
I'd like to add something here. It seems to me, that whenever the sankie is a man who got a visa to the US or Canada and sucked a woman dry, most advise -which I agree to - is to dump the bastard and revoke his visa immediately.
Now, when the same happens to a guy most advise are different.
Even blame him on the situation, without knowing all the details.
So is it OK to f^@k a guy, but it's forbidden to do the same with a woman, right?
Come on guys and gals! Be real!
The Hun
Now, when the same happens to a guy most advise are different.
Even blame him on the situation, without knowing all the details.
So is it OK to f^@k a guy, but it's forbidden to do the same with a woman, right?
Come on guys and gals! Be real!
The Hun
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As with all meandering threads eventually they cease to serve...
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As with all meandering threads eventually they cease to serve...
CLOSED.
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