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Somebody help my little girl, please!!!!!
Oh well...
My children were born here.
They have German passports. My wife is Dominican, that's where the Dominican citizenship would come from, so far not issued in a paper.
Still my wife could prevent me from taking the children overseas without her consent.
I know of an Austrian, however, who took his daughter out of the country on a Easter holiday, knowing that checks would be fewer...
m'frog
desperate said:
My children were born here.
They have German passports. My wife is Dominican, that's where the Dominican citizenship would come from, so far not issued in a paper.
Still my wife could prevent me from taking the children overseas without her consent.
I know of an Austrian, however, who took his daughter out of the country on a Easter holiday, knowing that checks would be fewer...
m'frog
Most countries will automatically grant citizenship to children born to their own citizens abroad. Much easier obtaining a mother's citizenship than a father's as maternity is easier to prove than paternity.Beads said:
Not so easy as Dominican Immigration would prevent the child leaving without the father's consent as they would suspect the father may be Dominican.Beads said:
We obtained her citizenship from the embassy in santo domingo while we were together living in the DR. It is not a problem for me to get her here, the problem is what good will I be to her if I am arrested and in jail for "kidnapping" her against the court order he has obtained (illegally albeit but he still has it)
The fastest and most logical way for me to deal with this is to obtain (somehow, legally or not) the same kind of order he has, temporary custody from a DR court. I would be more than willing to have him come here and have our case heard before the Canadian court. If I just take her and try to have it dealt with here, he will have charged and she will be sent back to him. How traumatic do you think that will be for her? Thinking in one moment she if safe here with me to be ripped away and sent back to the molestor. I think that would be the final straw for her. All of this was told to me by a Canadian lawyer who said, you need an order from there, then you can bring here without being charged and fight in the Canadian court. As disgusting as he is, apparantly he has bought himself some rights, through this Domincan ordered he obtained.
The fastest and most logical way for me to deal with this is to obtain (somehow, legally or not) the same kind of order he has, temporary custody from a DR court. I would be more than willing to have him come here and have our case heard before the Canadian court. If I just take her and try to have it dealt with here, he will have charged and she will be sent back to him. How traumatic do you think that will be for her? Thinking in one moment she if safe here with me to be ripped away and sent back to the molestor. I think that would be the final straw for her. All of this was told to me by a Canadian lawyer who said, you need an order from there, then you can bring here without being charged and fight in the Canadian court. As disgusting as he is, apparantly he has bought himself some rights, through this Domincan ordered he obtained.
Father is Important
For children fathered by a German the law is simple:
German Father = Child is German.
Anywhere.
Whether it applies to the Mother also, I do not know.
And I don't care either. :laugh:
m'frog
rellosk said:
For children fathered by a German the law is simple:
German Father = Child is German.
Anywhere.
Whether it applies to the Mother also, I do not know.
And I don't care either. :laugh:
m'frog
Here is what I will help you with. Please contact Fabio Guzman, he is well known here and he studied in Canada and speaks English very well. If he can't help you I trust he will lead you in the right direction. Phone numbers and emails on his site.
http://www.drlawyer.com/
http://www.drlawyer.com/
See Hillbilly's post in this thread. http://www.dr1.com/forums/showthread.php?t=45803&highlight=childdesperate said:
I believe that the solution is a lot easier than you think.
If you come to the DR and formally accuse the father os sexual molestation, then he will be tossed in jail.
In the meantime, you take possession of the child and, depending on your lawyer's advice and the legalities involved, you may be able to just bring her to Canada on the next plane.
I don't pretend to be a lawyer, but I do have an idea how things work here.
If daddy's in jail, how's he gonna stop you from taking the child.
It's not as if you are going to warn him you are coming.
You show up with the cops, they arrest him, and you take the child and worry about the details later.
Once you are here, you will have no problem finding a lawyer in the area, but you have to get down here.
It's as simple as that.
As soon as the child is out of daddy's hands, the child should be medically examined, also easy to arrange, to substantiate your allegations.
As it has been pointed out to you, none of us know you and do not know the whole truth about your situation, so I would like to point out to you that if your intentions are not as you portray them, and you toss the father in the slammer unjustly, you will be in one big heap of trouble later.
If you come to the DR and formally accuse the father os sexual molestation, then he will be tossed in jail.
In the meantime, you take possession of the child and, depending on your lawyer's advice and the legalities involved, you may be able to just bring her to Canada on the next plane.
I don't pretend to be a lawyer, but I do have an idea how things work here.
If daddy's in jail, how's he gonna stop you from taking the child.
It's not as if you are going to warn him you are coming.
You show up with the cops, they arrest him, and you take the child and worry about the details later.
Once you are here, you will have no problem finding a lawyer in the area, but you have to get down here.
It's as simple as that.
As soon as the child is out of daddy's hands, the child should be medically examined, also easy to arrange, to substantiate your allegations.
As it has been pointed out to you, none of us know you and do not know the whole truth about your situation, so I would like to point out to you that if your intentions are not as you portray them, and you toss the father in the slammer unjustly, you will be in one big heap of trouble later.
Come on man!
His only purpose on this site is to say things like: "oh, attacks is all you get on this board". All he does is wait for someone to say something negative in order to post his: "oh attacks is all you get on this board". He does not make the comment and then tries to help the "attacked", he makes his "oh...." comment and moves on without offering ANY type of help whatsoever!!!!!!. It's like a fricking broken record!. I mean, have you seen this guy help anybody or offer helpful information?. If you see it, please show me!.
Back to topic:
OP, who is the mother, you or your daughter?. If you are the mother and you really want to help your daughter, hop into the next fricking plane, grab her by the arm and take it to a female Doctor even if she cries for 10 years!!.
Get her to a clinic where they have counselors and Doctors. Have the counselor speak to her for a little bit to calm her down a little and then have a Doctor see her right after. If you don't' know of one, PM me and I WILL call a friend of mine in the DR and I will ask her.
The longer you wait, the harder it will be for her.
It really surprises me about SOME of you people who call yourselves mothers. A mother is supposed to move earth and oceans in order to see that their kids are being treated well.
If I were you, I would not wait another second, hop into a plane, grab my daughter, take her to a counselor, then to a Doctor and if the Doctor finds any type of sexual abuse, take that mo'fo' straight to jail. ALL IN ONE DAY!!.
Stop wasting time and go be a MOTHER!!.
Btw, johne, I AM the king of scum!. Unless there was an election and you won, wahahahahaha!.
johne: I will tell you the same thing MANY have told me about helpmann and what I have been noticing for a little while already, the guy is just a pest!. At least I can be a pest but I can also put aside my "pestness" and be of some help every now and then!. (Just wait until the other 2 LL's see this post!.)johne said:
His only purpose on this site is to say things like: "oh, attacks is all you get on this board". All he does is wait for someone to say something negative in order to post his: "oh attacks is all you get on this board". He does not make the comment and then tries to help the "attacked", he makes his "oh...." comment and moves on without offering ANY type of help whatsoever!!!!!!. It's like a fricking broken record!. I mean, have you seen this guy help anybody or offer helpful information?. If you see it, please show me!.
Back to topic:
OP, who is the mother, you or your daughter?. If you are the mother and you really want to help your daughter, hop into the next fricking plane, grab her by the arm and take it to a female Doctor even if she cries for 10 years!!.
Get her to a clinic where they have counselors and Doctors. Have the counselor speak to her for a little bit to calm her down a little and then have a Doctor see her right after. If you don't' know of one, PM me and I WILL call a friend of mine in the DR and I will ask her.
The longer you wait, the harder it will be for her.
It really surprises me about SOME of you people who call yourselves mothers. A mother is supposed to move earth and oceans in order to see that their kids are being treated well.
If I were you, I would not wait another second, hop into a plane, grab my daughter, take her to a counselor, then to a Doctor and if the Doctor finds any type of sexual abuse, take that mo'fo' straight to jail. ALL IN ONE DAY!!.
Stop wasting time and go be a MOTHER!!.
Btw, johne, I AM the king of scum!. Unless there was an election and you won, wahahahahaha!.
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Then it becomes one sided
Ed--sorry to disagree with you on the point of "if you don't believe her, then don't say anything"
As you said there are two sides to all stories. If one is not to use their logic, and in this case there are many holes in the story, what good does it do to remain silent? Do you not become an enabler by not voicing an opinon?
With all of the search programs available to her such as Google, Embassy sites, free legal help, Mother/Fathers of abducted children groups, why does she reach out to DR1 a group of people that know a lot about tourism, and I bet very little about legal matters as complex as this.
In her first posts she indicates "legal or illegal" she say I don't care. She also indicates the father has legal papers for custody. (albeit according to her he acquired them thru bribes-or least she alludes to that) So right off the top I have problems with her story and voiced my say.
As far as my feind Mr. Helpman is concerned and his abusive language perhaps the moderator sould take a look at some of our rules which are not to personally attack another member of this board.
I submit that bestowing the title of "King" upon me is a personal attack as I may not be worthy of such an honor and I hereby request this posting be deleted.
JOHN
LOLhowsillyhelpmanisofnohelpwhat-so-ever.
rellosk said:
Ed--sorry to disagree with you on the point of "if you don't believe her, then don't say anything"
As you said there are two sides to all stories. If one is not to use their logic, and in this case there are many holes in the story, what good does it do to remain silent? Do you not become an enabler by not voicing an opinon?
With all of the search programs available to her such as Google, Embassy sites, free legal help, Mother/Fathers of abducted children groups, why does she reach out to DR1 a group of people that know a lot about tourism, and I bet very little about legal matters as complex as this.
In her first posts she indicates "legal or illegal" she say I don't care. She also indicates the father has legal papers for custody. (albeit according to her he acquired them thru bribes-or least she alludes to that) So right off the top I have problems with her story and voiced my say.
As far as my feind Mr. Helpman is concerned and his abusive language perhaps the moderator sould take a look at some of our rules which are not to personally attack another member of this board.
I submit that bestowing the title of "King" upon me is a personal attack as I may not be worthy of such an honor and I hereby request this posting be deleted.
JOHN
LOLhowsillyhelpmanisofnohelpwhat-so-ever.