His entire family is in the DR, so when I was with him, it was just him. We first did a lot together, he took me places, and we had fun. But then out of nowhere, that ended. He was mostly working, even weekends (and yes, I know this for sure) so our time together dwindled down to one night a week, mostly late night, after work. However, he had started working less and didn't pick up more time with me, so I drifted. (Meaning slowly stopped caring.) The only people we mutually knew were coworkers and he was pretty secretive about his personal life. I had attempted to confront him many times about it all and he just told me I was too stressful, but loved me and didn't want to loose me. After awhile, I had enough. Actions speak louder then words, no matter what culture. So, moving forward, one of the signs I will look for right away is social/public exposure with the guy, I guess.