so i've ran into i guess what are two types of women in the dr. the money hungry one who tries to schmooze you, and the honest heart-felt one that really is serious. or is she?
let me explain.
the first money hungry one wasn't at all that way in the beginning. never asked for a peso or anything worth money, maybe a juice or funda de aqua while walking. but later in the relationship when time passed she needed this and that and couldn't afford it on her own. so having a little to spare i would help her out with a few things but nothing major, nothing over RD$1,000 ever. anyways to make a long story short, i just got fed up with her asking for money basically daily and not giving me somethings that i wanted daily if ya know what i mean...so i ended it. then comes to the light that she has someone else (who would've thunk it) on the side.
a little later i meet up with a very nice woman and we talk and get to know eachother quite well over a period of time. she is in university and she studies quite hard, goes to church often, is well educated, mannered, elegent, but also doesn't have any money of her own. we arrange to go meet her family as she lives in the city and her parents live in el campo. we enjoyed the time in the country and her parents were impressed with the chemistry in the two of us. i gave the parents some money to help out because they are quite poor even for the standards of the dominican republic. they also grow all their own food and her father who is a little aged works quite hard and i felt it was the least i could do after eating and sleeping there for half a week.
now here is where i am a little confused. i've tried offering her money before to buy minutes on her cell so we can talk, to buy clothes since she has very few, for books for school, food in the house, and miscellaneous other items and she ALWAYS refuses to take it, no matter the amount. so now i just don't offer anymore.
could she be planning something in the future? could she turn out like the other chick, just in a more slowly drawn out manner?
this girl has a LOT of potential in her life and i really dont see her going down that path, but have you seen it happen before?
let me explain.
the first money hungry one wasn't at all that way in the beginning. never asked for a peso or anything worth money, maybe a juice or funda de aqua while walking. but later in the relationship when time passed she needed this and that and couldn't afford it on her own. so having a little to spare i would help her out with a few things but nothing major, nothing over RD$1,000 ever. anyways to make a long story short, i just got fed up with her asking for money basically daily and not giving me somethings that i wanted daily if ya know what i mean...so i ended it. then comes to the light that she has someone else (who would've thunk it) on the side.
a little later i meet up with a very nice woman and we talk and get to know eachother quite well over a period of time. she is in university and she studies quite hard, goes to church often, is well educated, mannered, elegent, but also doesn't have any money of her own. we arrange to go meet her family as she lives in the city and her parents live in el campo. we enjoyed the time in the country and her parents were impressed with the chemistry in the two of us. i gave the parents some money to help out because they are quite poor even for the standards of the dominican republic. they also grow all their own food and her father who is a little aged works quite hard and i felt it was the least i could do after eating and sleeping there for half a week.
now here is where i am a little confused. i've tried offering her money before to buy minutes on her cell so we can talk, to buy clothes since she has very few, for books for school, food in the house, and miscellaneous other items and she ALWAYS refuses to take it, no matter the amount. so now i just don't offer anymore.
could she be planning something in the future? could she turn out like the other chick, just in a more slowly drawn out manner?
this girl has a LOT of potential in her life and i really dont see her going down that path, but have you seen it happen before?
