gre: Reading these posts>> really a mixed bag with this group.Sometimes I laugh and other times I shake my head in wonder.Some folks are rather witty with words and humor. Sounds like the men folk are really down on the DR women which I get to a certain point;no one wants to be used. I hate to stereotype anyone as I'm a minority myself,black American female. Anything people like me should be aware(beware) of when it comes to DR men?