is she or isn't she?

davidypatri26

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I think my wife is having an affair. She calls this one guy all the time, several times a day. He is single. every once in a while, they go out to lunch when I am out of town.

What do you guys think?
 

AnnaC

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Women have the greatest control over these things. So it depends if you trust her. He can't do anything to her if she doesn't want to.
 

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Anna Coniglio said:
Women have the greatest control over these things. So it depends if you trust her. He can't do anything to her if she doesn't want to.
I DOUBLE agree with that one!!
 
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davidypatri26 said:
I think my wife is having an affair. She calls this one guy all the time, several times a day. He is single. every once in a while, they go out to lunch when I am out of town.

What do you guys think?

Why are you married to her if you don't trust her??

I have many guy friends that I talk to all the time. We go out for lunch and things like that...

I have never and would never cheat on my husband.

And he knows this, and would not assume something was up if this were the same situation for us.

Either there are other things you have been noticing to make you think this way, or you never trusted her.
 
Anna Coniglio said:
Women have the greatest control over these things. So it depends if you trust her. He can't do anything to her if she doesn't want to.

Obviously she doesn't have much control if she has to spend a lot of time conversating with another man, and why does she have to wait for her man to go out of town to do these things. Is she afraid her man will disapprove when he is in town?

Is there lack of communication between the two that cause her to look elsewhere?

Looks like the relationship is compromised to me.
 

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davidypatri26 said:
I think my wife is having an affair. She calls this one guy all the time, several times a day. He is single. every once in a while, they go out to lunch when I am out of town.

What do you guys think?
Tune into Jerry Springer...CBS 4pm est
 

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davidypatri26 said:
I think my wife is having an affair. She calls this one guy all the time, several times a day. He is single. every once in a while, they go out to lunch when I am out of town.

What do you guys think?


Have you asked her about it? What does she say? Does she get uncomfortable when you question her about it? Or even better ask to meet him, tell her that if he is such an important part of her life you would like to meet him.
 

davidypatri26

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NYCDominican:

I have spoken to him and states unequivocally that there is nothing going on between them. They are just friends. She tells me that her conscience is clear and is not doing anything
 

AnnaC

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If she's not being secretive about her conversations and is telling you that she is going out to lunch with him I see no problem. Not all men are great conversationalist.

Unlike some men I have meet while in the DR that have told their wives that they are going moose hunting with the buddies. Yeah moose hunting. ;)

What I'm saying is, if she was sneaking around, whispering on the phone and never told you about him then you might have something to worry about. You know just like cheating men do. :cross-eye
 

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This is ridiculous. Of course she is having an affair!!! Who needs to talk to someone SEVERAL times a day. I don't even talk to my wife that much...
 

ggn420

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suarezn said:
This is ridiculous. Of course she is having an affair!!! Who needs to talk to someone SEVERAL times a day. I don't even talk to my wife that much...
I'll bet she's having PHONE SEX with him.....I would put a wire on that phone, it's illegal.....but soooo what? Your in the DR. Out to lunch....the question is "what's to munch?"
 

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Anna Coniglio said:
If she's not being secretive about her conversations and is telling you that she is going out to lunch with him I see no problem. Not all men are great conversationalist.

Unlike some men I have meet while in the DR that have told their wives that they are going moose hunting with the buddies. Yeah moose hunting. ;)

What I'm saying is, if she was sneaking around, whispering on the phone and never told you about him then you might have something to worry about. You know just like cheating men do. :cross-eye


hahahahahahahaaha....Moose hunting in the D.R.!! that's funny!!!!!!!!:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: hahahahahahahahaha lol
That's a good one Anna!!!!!!hahahahahhaha got a good laugh from that one!!

ok sorry, back to the topic.....

-Enver
 

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davidypatri26 said:
I think my wife is having an affair. She calls this one guy all the time, several times a day. He is single. every once in a while, they go out to lunch when I am out of town.

What do you guys think?
1) Is this thread in any way DR related?

2) Should the name of the board be changed from "DR1" to "Dear Anna"?
 

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davidypatri26 said:
I think my wife is having an affair. She calls this one guy all the time, several times a day. He is single. every once in a while, they go out to lunch when I am out of town.

What do you guys think?
Just shoot her......