Como lo digo......
So I have been lurking here for a few months, but afraid to post. I met a nice man while on vacation in the DR and kept in touch with him. A few months ago I went to visit him. We had a great time I thought, but he has asked me for money a few times and after reading this forum, I no longer feel bad for him, just sad that someone would try to use another person and be dishonest. I indeed did see how he lives and its not a life I would be able to handle (no hot water, small homes, not enough food sometimes), but.... no matter what I believe a decent man would not ask a woman for money. I am young, attractive and of Mexican decent, but I think he may have liked me, but also liked the money he thought he may get more. I have not yet told him how I feel, or about this site, but I think it may be time to call it quits. I don't wnt to hear any cruel remarks from some of the rude people here, I just needed to vent.
I have said the same thing here, over the years, about 10,000 times and still some people do not get it.
Maybe if a woman says it, perhaps they will listen.
So here it goes......
Brad Pitt: "Give me or send me some money"
Miguela: "GO F*** YOURSELF!!".
Albert Einstein: "Give me or send me some money"
Miguela; "GO F*** YOURSELF!!".
A barrio Tigre: "Give me or send me some money"
Miguela: " GO F*** YOURSELF!!.
A Resort worker: "Give me or send me some money"
Miguela: "GO F*** YOURSELF!!".
A College Professor: "Give me or send me some money"
Miguela: "GO F*** YOURSELF!!".
A Sankie: "Guve me or send me some money"
Miguela: "GO F*** YOURSELF!!.
Bottom line:
A man, ANY MAN, whether he is educated, poor, ugly, handsome, famous, OR WHATEVER:
DOESN'T ASK A WOMAN FOR MONEY!!!!!. NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEVER, EEEEEEEEEEEEVER!!. NO MATTER WHAT!!!!!!!!!.
If a man, ANY MAN, asks a woman for money, SHE SHOULD RUN AS FAST AS SHE CAN.
But if you give it to him, don't complain when your life is miserable, when he takes you for granted and when he dumps your axx when you stop sending/giving him more!!.