Ok, time to share with the board again... Hello Friends!
So my mom comes back from DR after living there for 10 years. We decided that she needs to do her American Citizenship so that she can get all the benefits she is entitled to after working here for almost 20 years...
The problem is that we just realized she will need to stay for what looks like a few years. Of course, she is staying with me (no question, Dom parents are to stay with their kids, that?s not even a conversation, is a statement).
My mom is the typical Dominican woman (de las serias), OLD fashion, and very much an introvert. After my life has taken so many ups and downs ? I am now used to living alone. As many of you know, I am now divorced and share custody of my kids with their dad. So I have the best of both worlds ? so I get be single and detached for half of the time and mommy and house rat for the remainder ? and I love it this way!!
Yes, I understand that many folks don?t have their mothers around and I am very fortunate that mine is and she is healthy. I?m not trying to sound like and ingrate here. But you can all admit that after living as an adult alone with my struggles for 10 years; this is a grave shock to my world!
I remember when my grandfather moved in with us and he lived with us for about 5 years. My aunt took my grandmother and we took my grandfather. Again, in old age ? Dominican parents just come back to the kids. I just didn?t think it would be this early!
Has anybody experienced taking in their parent to live again?
So my mom comes back from DR after living there for 10 years. We decided that she needs to do her American Citizenship so that she can get all the benefits she is entitled to after working here for almost 20 years...
The problem is that we just realized she will need to stay for what looks like a few years. Of course, she is staying with me (no question, Dom parents are to stay with their kids, that?s not even a conversation, is a statement).
My mom is the typical Dominican woman (de las serias), OLD fashion, and very much an introvert. After my life has taken so many ups and downs ? I am now used to living alone. As many of you know, I am now divorced and share custody of my kids with their dad. So I have the best of both worlds ? so I get be single and detached for half of the time and mommy and house rat for the remainder ? and I love it this way!!
Yes, I understand that many folks don?t have their mothers around and I am very fortunate that mine is and she is healthy. I?m not trying to sound like and ingrate here. But you can all admit that after living as an adult alone with my struggles for 10 years; this is a grave shock to my world!
I remember when my grandfather moved in with us and he lived with us for about 5 years. My aunt took my grandmother and we took my grandfather. Again, in old age ? Dominican parents just come back to the kids. I just didn?t think it would be this early!
Has anybody experienced taking in their parent to live again?