My husband, Dominican, and I met in 2004 and married in 2005. He arrived in Canada in the summer of 2005 and spoke next to no English (we communicated and still do to a certain extent by Spanish as it is more comfortable since it was how things were when we met). My husband and I lived with my parents in their basement apartment for the first 1.5 years and my husband went to English school for the first nine months. He was dying to work but my family and I kept encouraging him to learn as much as he could as it would take him farther in a country where Spanish is not widespread. He had a college education in the DR and had gone to trade school to be an electrician. He started working almost a year after arriving here and started making almost $20/hr., had benefits, pension, etc.
Now 2.5 years after he has been here, he has his driver's licence (something he had to study for, again attend school - mostly with people 15 years his junior as most people in Canada get their licence when they are 16), is making $24/hr. with the same company who he started with over a year ago, we bought a house last year 20 minutes from downtown Toronto and just purchased land in the Dominican Republic for our future. In the next year we hope to start a family, neither of us having any children from past relationships, and we are fortunate enough to visit family in New York and DR at least a few times per year since my husband has been here. My family has been so accepting of my husband and my parents love him like their own son.
My husband and I have grown so much as a couple since he has been here... he has learned English to a point that I can no longer believe he never spoke the language, he can find his way in the largest city in Canada and he works his butt off to contribute to our joint income.
My husband and I have met or know well many Canadian/Dominican couples and contrary to what you read on this site, there are just as many very successful marriages/immigration stories as bad ones. All of the Dominicans we know work their butts off, some in underpaid jobs and others with extremely successful careers, but they don't complain and they have done what is necessary to survive here without complaint. Of course we have met some losers (pardon the expression) that have left their wife or husband within the first year of arriving to Canada and who do little to hold down a job but we know far more with stories like ours. In every country and every culture you will find the good and bad.
It takes work in helping each other, especially the first year, with home sickness, cultural differences, language differences, etc. but I am so in love with the man I married that I could never ever consider it a burrden and I have learned so much about so many things from him that every day together is a journey.
I too had a bad Domincan relationship once upon a time but mostly on this site you only hear about the bad stories and I wish everyone could realize that there are probably so many more successful stories out there than everyone realizes.
I wish all the best to anyone marrying a Dominican and that they have taken the time to get to know both their spouse and their spouse's family (which is of central importance to your marriage). If everyone who married someone from the DR was as lucky as I am, their future only holds the best.