The storm has essentially been a rain event for Cabarete.
Windy, but less so than in a good thunderstorm.
Highest winds today, gusts a little over 30mph.
Highest winds in last week were about 35mph.
iWindsurf.com - Cabarete Bay Current Wind
All should be cleared out by the time you're here (I hope!).
Paraiso del Sol is about 2.5km east of Cabarete. I'm not familiar with the hotel itself, but I think it's okay. The area was one of the earlier in the area to be developed and is showing it's age a little, but no reason you can't enjoy yourself. I know people that live out there.
Be cautious with the ocean there. Currents can be very strong.
Do come into the town of Cabarete early in your trip. For breakfast, lunch, dinner, a drink, or just to lay out on the beach or swim (calm water). The reason I say 'early in your trip - if you enjoy it, you'll have the chance to come back more than once.