I must say that it was a disappointment to me in my first posts ever on this forum, concerning the girl at Blackbeard's who I fancy -- to be greeted with laughter and sarcasm and a promptly locked thread.
I realize that I am treading in treacherous waters. But I also know that there are other guys who took girls out of Blackbeard's and have had successful relationships both in the USA and in the DR.
I presented my situation in hopes of some constructive comments. I did not deserve to be mocked and dismissed. We are, after all -- all human beings, all God's children. The particular girl I am interested in is a good hearted soul, a single parent with a little girl. She IS going to school in an attempt to better herself, whilst making a home for her and her child. She maintains a decent little apartment, and feeds and clothes her little girl.
We have discussed trying to obtain a tourist visa, or visitor's visa (whatever it is called) for her and see how she likes life in the USA for a few months. She wants a better life, and who can fault her for that?
At the risk of provoking more laughter and sarcasm, I will tell you that I consider many of the girls I have met at Blackbeard's to be good and honorable people. They are working in an undesireable job to support a family. I actually find that admirable.
Those are my thoughts. I hope this thread does not get locked immediately, and I hope some thoughtful people have some constructive comments to make. If not so be it. If I again get laughed and ridiculed off the board, then I will know that this group is not the right group for me.
Thanks for the opportunity to post..
I realize that I am treading in treacherous waters. But I also know that there are other guys who took girls out of Blackbeard's and have had successful relationships both in the USA and in the DR.
I presented my situation in hopes of some constructive comments. I did not deserve to be mocked and dismissed. We are, after all -- all human beings, all God's children. The particular girl I am interested in is a good hearted soul, a single parent with a little girl. She IS going to school in an attempt to better herself, whilst making a home for her and her child. She maintains a decent little apartment, and feeds and clothes her little girl.
We have discussed trying to obtain a tourist visa, or visitor's visa (whatever it is called) for her and see how she likes life in the USA for a few months. She wants a better life, and who can fault her for that?
At the risk of provoking more laughter and sarcasm, I will tell you that I consider many of the girls I have met at Blackbeard's to be good and honorable people. They are working in an undesireable job to support a family. I actually find that admirable.
Those are my thoughts. I hope this thread does not get locked immediately, and I hope some thoughtful people have some constructive comments to make. If not so be it. If I again get laughed and ridiculed off the board, then I will know that this group is not the right group for me.
Thanks for the opportunity to post..