I have a question and I'm looking for some advice
I'm a Canadian. I have fallin in love with a Dominican man (age 26 and I'm 29)that I have known since Februaury 2009. I have taken 2 trips to the Dominican so far and I'm planning another in January. We have decided to get married in April 2010. I love him very much and I truely do believe that he also loves me. He does speak Spanish and English very well. He comes from a poor family and he too is not well off. He is happy in the Dominican for the most part and at first wanted me to move to the Dominican. I have a 7 year old son and a pretty good job so that was not practical for me. He has decided that he would come to Canada if that is what I want so that we can be together. He has never asked me for anything and I made it clear from the begining that I would not give him money or stuff. I have only sent him 1 present for his birthday in July and nothing else. I made it clear, if he wanted to be with me it was not for money. I'm not rich and I have made that clear to him and I think he knows that because I can not afford to go back to see him again until January. We talk often about the life we wnat to have together and the things we want out of life. We talk almost everyday mostly by me calling him...like I said he's not well off. He works and has had several different jobs and will do anything for work, he's not overly picky. He tells me that he is a hard worker and that he doesn't need anything from me. However I'm not a stupid person and eventhough I do love him with my whole heart I have also done a lot of research and know that often these relationships have other purposes than love behind them...I would like to know about some GOOD stories and also signs I should be watching for....Do you think I'm going in blind or could this be the real deal...It must work out sometimes, right?
Thanks
T
I'm a Canadian. I have fallin in love with a Dominican man (age 26 and I'm 29)that I have known since Februaury 2009. I have taken 2 trips to the Dominican so far and I'm planning another in January. We have decided to get married in April 2010. I love him very much and I truely do believe that he also loves me. He does speak Spanish and English very well. He comes from a poor family and he too is not well off. He is happy in the Dominican for the most part and at first wanted me to move to the Dominican. I have a 7 year old son and a pretty good job so that was not practical for me. He has decided that he would come to Canada if that is what I want so that we can be together. He has never asked me for anything and I made it clear from the begining that I would not give him money or stuff. I have only sent him 1 present for his birthday in July and nothing else. I made it clear, if he wanted to be with me it was not for money. I'm not rich and I have made that clear to him and I think he knows that because I can not afford to go back to see him again until January. We talk often about the life we wnat to have together and the things we want out of life. We talk almost everyday mostly by me calling him...like I said he's not well off. He works and has had several different jobs and will do anything for work, he's not overly picky. He tells me that he is a hard worker and that he doesn't need anything from me. However I'm not a stupid person and eventhough I do love him with my whole heart I have also done a lot of research and know that often these relationships have other purposes than love behind them...I would like to know about some GOOD stories and also signs I should be watching for....Do you think I'm going in blind or could this be the real deal...It must work out sometimes, right?
Thanks
T