it's not like there is a particularly virulent strain of racial antagonism that is is uniquely North American.
I agree with what you say but I differ in opinion with respect to one word. I think it is virulent in the DR. In the US I think it is not only virulent but also violent. In the US the antagonism comes at the end of a gun by people are too scared at how well you would do in comparison to themselves if there were no hindrances. In the Dominican Republic, the antagonism is festered in class structure and what it takes to acquire a position in that class structure and party alliances. If your party has to lineal relationship to Europe then the insertion into the class structure that makes decisions is off- limits. Just as DMV said there are unspoken and subtle cues and clues that determine where the ceiling exists. And the most peculiar thing is that the insular culture of nepotism and ethnocentric allegiances doesn't interest the foreigners when they visit. The foreigners find the phenotypic representation of the underclass blindly more desirable than the erudite elite. In fact, the elite are almost relegated to remain in their fiefdom as it is the only place where they are extended the aura of supremacy. How many upper class Dominicans do you know who couldnt hack living in New York City because of the inherent plebian status a Dominican has in the Big Apple? So we call those who stay Dominican Yorks and infer that they lack refinement and fawn sophistication because they are exposed, invested and principled in another set of values from a more cosmopolitan place.
worldwide black culture.
...there is some worldwide black culture but many blacks in the US do. It would be great too if all Americans thought of themselves as Americans first, but many don't.
Aida, what he is referring to is that some Black people in the US to give their children African or Muslim names. To celebrate Kwanzaa in addition to Christmas. To wear daishikis and kufis and celebrate Juneteenth, and have wedding ceremonies that include jumping a broom. It is a loony supposition but then again I didn't make it.
My brother is named after Kwame Nkrumah and when I grew up many women were given Islamic names, like Ameenah, Rasheeda and Shakirah. When my daughter was born I gave her an Hindu name.
And wouldnt it really be great if ALL AMERICANS THOUGHT OF OTHER AMERICANS AS AMERICANS ALSO? BUT MANY DON'T. That is a truer statement than the one you made.
When I first moved here and heard comments like fea, flaca etc I was appalled. By my standards this was not done and was rude. Here it just IS. Color is the same - it just is. They judge each other by the color of their skin. That is the way things are here. I have heard women talk about getting a white gringo so they can have whiter babies. About not wanting to date the black Dominican because they don't want ugly black babies.
I know very dark Dominican women who would do anything if only they could lighten their skin so their fellow Dominicans would not see them as ugly. Black is ugly and white is not. That is the underlying bias.
What threw me, is the confusion of whether I am supposed to believe this also? I mean, should I feel ashamed of myself because I am dark-skinned? Should I try to do anything possible to make myself lighter? For whose gain? I can feel ashamed for not speaking Spanish with 100% accuracy but I'm almost indifferent to it and don't let it stop me. I knew there was a class stratification here when I came. I packed all these suits and figured if I dress as a professional they would have to see me as one and respect me as one. But then I re-considered. 1st, wearing suits all the time in a tropical country is incredibly uncomfortable and hot. And 2, I could care less how they saw me because en masse there are so many Black influences coming from the US that all derisive perceptions lose bearing and consistency when exposed to the facts. 3rd, because many of the professional class in the DR are undeserving of that title. Many of them are incompetent as the day is long but rely on skin color and natty attire to give them respect they couldn't muster on their own accord. 4th, that as a foreigner as long as I had money I was the center of the universe, the sun, moon and the stars.
With respect to the self-esteem of the opposite gender on this issue DMV is correct. Screw Pena Gomez, he never got what he wanted did he? Guy runs for president and get party chairman. Mission Accomplished? How many women have you seen Chip with the pancake makeup and rosy cheeks and red lipstick and blue eyeliner who literally looked like clowns? Big brown shoulders but all this crap on her face because she doesn't see herself worthy as a normal brown-skin woman so she has to accentuate her face "estar mas linda". The definition of normal depends on how blanca you pass for. And the Dominican does have an obsession with skin color. An OBSESSION. No one wants to be white but just whiter. Show them photos of your children and the first thing they comment on is the skin color. And how it differs or "pales" in comparison to the parents. Calling dark skin people "mono" and light skin people "limpio". That is as virulent as it gets. As seriously Porto Ricans are no better(I bring this up because there is a segment that always professes independence, nationalism and unity but intentionally ostracize the Black Puerto Rican element as though they are of no importance or ideologically inconsequential).
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