Dating Rules That Work For You

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santiagodude

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I am curious if any DR daters have created personal dating rules that seem to work well for them.
Although no system is perfect, the information may be helpful to others seeking to date in the DR. I will share my dating rules that have worked for me so far. (HB's rules are great but very few ladies can qualify)

1. Attractive ;)
2. No kids
3. Job or in school
4. Chemistry
5. Low maintenance (no gold diggers)
6. No Pros

*Number 1 & 2 eliminate about 90% of potential dates, but women without kids tend to be less desperate thus more attractive to me and I prefer a lady that can afford to walk away from a relationship (like I can).

My current GF fits all the above, as far as I can tell ;)

In my personal experience about 2 out of every 10 girls fit all the above, so basically its a numbers game. The more you date the better your chances.
 

charlise

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I have 1 rule regarding men here.

Trust NO ONE...

Served me pretty darn well for the past 3 years. But that's only me, the cold hard sarcastic biatch.... And proud of it... lol
 

barker1964

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My number one rule is. Make sure never to get in a situation where you end up supporting the family. And it does happen.
 

jstarebel

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I have 1 rule regarding men here.

Trust NO ONE...

Served me pretty darn well for the past 3 years. But that's only me, the cold hard sarcastic biatch.... And proud of it... lol

So you would be one that would be worth dating then. Something about wiping your feet on a doormat that is unappealing to many men. I can imagine that guys would be afraid of you.
 

Aguaita29

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So you would be one that would be worth dating then. Something about wiping your feet on a doormat that is unappealing to many men. I can imagine that guys would be afraid of you.

I think she's on to something. Dominican men won't respect women who believe all their stories 100%.
 

jimbobo

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dating rules

I am curious if any DR daters have created personal dating rules that seem to work well for them.
Although no system is perfect, the information may be helpful to others seeking to date in the DR. I will share my dating rules that have worked for me so far. (HB's rules are great but very few ladies can qualify)

1. Attractive ;)
2. No kids
3. Job or in school
4. Chemistry
5. Low maintenance (no gold diggers)
6. No Pros

*Number 1 & 2 eliminate about 90% of potential dates, but women without kids tend to be less desperate thus more attractive to me and I prefer a lady that can afford to walk away from a relationship (like I can).


My current GF fits all the above, as far as I can tell ;)

In my personal experience about 2 out of every 10 girls fit all the above, so basically its a numbers game. The more you date the better your chances.

1. head for the cabanas as soon as possible
2. never give your cell phone number
3. when you're done never look for her again, there are many many others; don't look back
 

JMB773

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I am curious if any DR daters have created personal dating rules that seem to work well for them.
Although no system is perfect, the information may be helpful to others seeking to date in the DR. I will share my dating rules that have worked for me so far. (HB's rules are great but very few ladies can qualify)

1. Attractive ;)
2. No kids
3. Job or in school
4. Chemistry
5. Low maintenance (no gold diggers)
6. No Pros

*Number 1 & 2 eliminate about 90% of potential dates, but women without kids tend to be less desperate thus more attractive to me and I prefer a lady that can afford to walk away from a relationship (like I can).

My current GF fits all the above, as far as I can tell ;)

In my personal experience about 2 out of every 10 girls fit all the above, so basically its a numbers game. The more you date the better your chances.

Yeah just like the LOTTERY!!!!!
 

sosuamatt

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Nasa's robot Curiosity landed on Mars. Early pictures show no signs of espn, beer or porn. This makes it very clear that men are not from mars!
 

pauleast

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Never ever let them spend the night at your casa particular. Otherwise it will be ground zero for drama.That's what cabanas are for.
 

the gorgon

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Never ever let them spend the night at your casa particular. Otherwise it will be ground zero for drama.That's what cabanas are for.

don't even let them know where you live. they will show up unannounced, and bellow for you from the front gate.
 
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1. head for the cabanas as soon as possible
2. never give your cell phone number
3. when you're done never look for her again, there are many many others; don't look back

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These are good rules for mongering and one-night stands, not any source of serious dating.
 

dv8

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the rule is one and simple: have money, will ride the punnaney. i see no other purpose of dating, unless you are looking to mate for life. then it's not called "dating" but "looking for a vessel for your baby batter" and different rules apply.
 

MpJuly

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Date a foreign rather than a Dominican

In other words, it's better to date a foreign rather than a Dominican :smoke:
 
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the rule is one and simple: have money, will ride the punnaney. i see no other purpose of dating, unless you are looking to mate for life. then it's not called "dating" but "looking for a vessel for your baby batter" and different rules apply.
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The problem for a lifetime love affair is that all people change over time both physically and mentally, and not everyone is capable of changing in harmony with a mate. So over time, people grow apart, and many simply end up rather miserable, connected by law and/or financial necessity to someone with whom they no longer have much in common. Some people (take Ossie Davis and Ruby Dee, for example) are truly fortunate to meet and marry and stay in mutual harmony. Others do not seem to ever manage this.
 

Curacaoleno

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the rule is one and simple: have money, will ride the punnaney. i see no other purpose of dating, unless you are looking to mate for life. then it's not called "dating" but "looking for a vessel for your baby batter" and different rules apply.

Still if you are a 50 year old fat gringo, dont think that a hot 20 year old Domincana thinks that you are her mate for life...
 

Curacaoleno

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I am curious if any DR daters have created personal dating rules that seem to work well for them.
Although no system is perfect, the information may be helpful to others seeking to date in the DR. I will share my dating rules that have worked for me so far. (HB's rules are great but very few ladies can qualify)

1. Attractive ;)
2. No kids
3. Job or in school
4. Chemistry
5. Low maintenance (no gold diggers)
6. No Pros

*Number 1 & 2 eliminate about 90% of potential dates, but women without kids tend to be less desperate thus more attractive to me and I prefer a lady that can afford to walk away from a relationship (like I can).

My current GF fits all the above, as far as I can tell ;)

In my personal experience about 2 out of every 10 girls fit all the above, so basically its a numbers game. The more you date the better your chances.

Age difference.. There should be not an age difference of more then 10 years..
 
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