How you dress tells a lot about a person. Sobriety, simple/plainness, even to the extent of being boring and somber (minus the sadness) are the traits one looks for in a qualified candidate for politician, lawman, religious scholar, etc.
You are not alone in your way of thinking, hence the army of young, hot to trot fashionistas that inundate the dominican professional world. No wonder its often thought of / considered as decidedly...well unprofessional, and lacking in quality.
And thats pretty clear across the board. Professional services, legal services, trades, retail, government, down to how the average citizen navigates on the public roadways. How do any of these stack up against American or Canadian or British cultural values and professional / basic societal culture?
The question you pose at the end of your post is interesting. Some would say it’s unfair to compare DR cultural and societal values to North American/UK values, but spending extended periods of time in the DR forces expats and snowbirds to make comparisons. Posters on this forum, including me, have been doing comparisons since Robert set up this forum.
I had no problem coping with and adapting to many of the short comings of daily DR life during the 16 winters I spent there. I didn’t go there wishing there was a Walmart and Starbucks on every street corner. I went there to enjoy the climate and culture and was lucky enough to be introduced to and accepted by a few Dominican families thanks to my expat friends. They enriched my life.
Ultimately it was the lack of law and order that changed my mind about spending anymore long term stays in the DR. A consistent, fair, rule of law in the DR simply doesn’t exist. Especially for gringos and the reasons are obvious, corrupted officials at all levels , lack of education, training, and adequate pay for law enforcement officers, and no political will to change the status quo. The latest clash between the police and the AOP is just one more glaring symptom of a much bigger problem.
The ability to live safely in a country where I‘m guaranteed due process, where I wont be illegally arrested and incarcerated for up to a year with no legal recourse, and then pressured to bribe my way out of jail by corrupt officials, is important to me. Something I value very highly. One of the values of a civilized society sadly lacking in the DR.
Kudos to the expats who made the commitment to invest in property, live there full time, and weather the storms. Good luck coping with the increasing daily aggravations, droughts, extended periods of intense heat, intermittent power supply, unreliable water supply, dangerous traffic conditions, and the incompetent government.
There may be worse places to live but there are definitely better places to live.