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Greetings Amigos !
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Treat them like you would your personal computer.
Avoid permanent installation of hardware.
Go for "Plug and Play".
Any problems, just plug in(to) another one.
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Text you multiple times during the day, hell I get mortgage companies doing that all the time. It is called SPAM. You are fortunate that you came to this forum before your trip. My friend, are there sincere women on the internet dating sites in the DR? Yes, maybe, I doubt it, no. Internet dating sites in the DR are like fishing. You throw out the bait and see who bites. Unfortunately, most of the women on these sites are looking for one thing $$$$$$$$$. They are also looking for someone who will be attentive, wine and dine them, green card, monthly allowance, medical and dental plans and other benefits. There is absolutely nothing wrong with getting together with a couple of beautiful babies while you are in the DR. Have fun, enjoy their company but just remember these women are a lot like puppies. They are so cute and at first you resist taking one home. Then they begin to grow on you and you start to think, I can do this. Just remember they are not house broken. It is hard when you are in the DR and you are getting all this attention from women not to think it is all about you, MR. Studmuffin. That is exactly what these women want you to feel. You are going to catch "Island Fever". You may be delirious. In this state of mind do not make any promises you can't keep and for god sakes do not and I repeat do not, during a vulnerable time (having sex) shout out, I love you. If you do you can kiss your a__ goodbye and your previously life will gone. You are not in Kansas anymore, when you come to the DR. Remember that and you will be fine.
LTSTeve
LTSTeve
Before I narrowed my choices down to just the 2 I talk to now trust me I saw a lot of game and fishing going on. I got the "I need help for school" , "I need a tarjeta", "Te amo" , and "I want you to be my novio". The 2 now don't seem to be on that level. 1 works at an accountant firm and goes to school. Never asks for anything (32yrs old). The 23yr old is the 1 I watch more in her demeanor and life style but have not been able to catch her in any changed stories or statements. These 2 have passed all my red alert checks so far. As for the first 60 or so I chatted with it was a easy stamp of "No Go" ! lol
Post some pics of the applicants, and we can help you out with the selection process.
The girls you find on the internet are "PROS, both in "Scamming", and sex.
Go back and look at the fotos they posted, if you married her, will you display them on the wall in your living room, or would you take them into the bathroom, and "Enjoy Them" in private???
After you meet "Miss Right", see how long before you "Bed" her. Usually on night one.
Ask yourself, am I the "ONLY" guy that responded to her "AD"?
Am I the only guy she met?
Am I the only guy she is screwing/scamming"?
YOU can't/won't win!
A few years ago a friend asked me how I knew how to handle "Dominicanas" so well?
I told him it only took me about 27 years, and $250,000 US!
If you don't have that much time, or money to invest, don't "Buy In" to this GAME!
That said, now this can be tricky,come down, act like you are head over heals in love with "THEM", and you play them!
Enjoy all the great sex you can handle!
Just tell the girls that you don't have any money "Right Now", but your "Checks In The Mail", so to speak.
String them along, never spending more than a few thousand pesos on anything/one.
They WILL pester you for money,, for everything but herself, sick mother,tuition, rent, cell phone,(So She can talk ONLY with you!) the list is long, Very LOOOOOOOOOOOOONG!
Sooner, or later, she will just go away, to the next "poor Sucker" who does give her a lot of time and money, because he "KNOWS" they are truely in "LOVE"!
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"Somebody Paleeeeeeeeeeze Stop ME!!!!
I have been "Playing The game" here, since 1986!
The "Learning Curve" has been very steep, and VERY COSTLY!
At first I got "Played Like a Violin"!
The "School of Hard Knocks" is a really good teacher!
I Studied, I did lots of "Home, AND "Hotel" Work!
THAT was the fun part!
I was 40 when I started, I'm 66 now.
Now I am a "Professor" in "Dominicanas".
But I STILL learn more everyday.
If you want to survive "The Game" here, you have to be a bigger "Player" than your fellow "Gamers"!
I say stay there, and keep looking.
If you are a nice man, with a good job,no drugs, or alcohol, find a woman who is the same.
Unless you only want to marry an African American, expand your search.
There are a lot more "Other" races out there than African Americans.
I have seen thousands of men come here "Looking For Love", and a "Wife".
The success stories you can count on your fingers and toes!
Our big mistake is thinking we can find a "Good Woman" on internet dating sites.
The VAST majority are just poor woman who are being coached on how to the "Win The Game".
And they get REAL GOOD!
Most are working more than one "Mark" at a time.
Most/many are young, beautiful, and available.
If you come looking for love, you will most likely find love.
However, only YOU will be "In Love", NOT HER!
And you will actually just be "In Lust", not real love.
After reading your posts, my "Professional Opinion" is that you will be taken like an innocent lamb to slaughter!
You will lose a lot of money, and endure great sadness, because you will think,"This Could Be The ONE"!
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Go back and look at the fotos they posted, if you married her, will you display them on the wall in your living room, or would you take them into the bathroom, and "Enjoy Them" in private???
After you meet "Miss Right", see how long before you "Bed" her. Usually on night one.
Ask yourself, am I the "ONLY" guy that responded to her "AD"?
Am I the only guy she met?
Am I the only guy she is screwing/scamming"?
YOU can't/won't win!
A few years ago a friend asked me how I knew how to handle "Dominicanas" so well?
I told him it only took me about 27 years, and $250,000 US!
If you don't have that much time, or money to invest, don't "Buy In" to this GAME!
That said, now this can be tricky,come down, act like you are head over heals in love with "THEM", and you play them!
Enjoy all the great sex you can handle!
Just tell the girls that you don't have any money "Right Now", but your "Checks In The Mail", so to speak.
String them along, never spending more than a few thousand pesos on anything/one.
They WILL pester you for money,, for everything but herself, sick mother,tuition, rent, cell phone,(So She can talk ONLY with you!) the list is long, Very LOOOOOOOOOOOOONG!
Sooner, or later, she will just go away, to the next "poor Sucker" who does give her a lot of time and money, because he "KNOWS" they are truely in "LOVE"!
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"Somebody Paleeeeeeeeeeze Stop ME!!!!
I have been "Playing The game" here, since 1986!
The "Learning Curve" has been very steep, and VERY COSTLY!
At first I got "Played Like a Violin"!
The "School of Hard Knocks" is a really good teacher!
I Studied, I did lots of "Home, AND "Hotel" Work!
THAT was the fun part!
I was 40 when I started, I'm 66 now.
Now I am a "Professor" in "Dominicanas".
But I STILL learn more everyday.
If you want to survive "The Game" here, you have to be a bigger "Player" than your fellow "Gamers"!
I say stay there, and keep looking.
If you are a nice man, with a good job,no drugs, or alcohol, find a woman who is the same.
Unless you only want to marry an African American, expand your search.
There are a lot more "Other" races out there than African Americans.
I have seen thousands of men come here "Looking For Love", and a "Wife".
The success stories you can count on your fingers and toes!
Our big mistake is thinking we can find a "Good Woman" on internet dating sites.
The VAST majority are just poor woman who are being coached on how to the "Win The Game".
And they get REAL GOOD!
Most are working more than one "Mark" at a time.
Most/many are young, beautiful, and available.
If you come looking for love, you will most likely find love.
However, only YOU will be "In Love", NOT HER!
And you will actually just be "In Lust", not real love.
After reading your posts, my "Professional Opinion" is that you will be taken like an innocent lamb to slaughter!
You will lose a lot of money, and endure great sadness, because you will think,"This Could Be The ONE"!
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I will post some if I can figure out how when I get home. No problem ! As I was scoping the online site you can easily tell the gamers by their pics (thongs , breast half covered , pics in hotels , etc ! I mean why are you in a thong laying across a hotel bed ??? Some pics didn't even look real. That is why I asked to see them on video cam and some would make excuses why they couldn't show themselves. Wasn't hard to weed out the $$$$$$ cueros. Even their conversation would be geared towards sexual favors.
I understand they have game but that may be due to many men and woman not use to talking to or dealing with black/spanish culture. I mean if you come from a well off family and went to a private school and never been to the hood I can see how many get hoodwinked ! :bandit:
I understand they have game but that may be due to many men and woman not use to talking to or dealing with black/spanish culture. I mean if you come from a well off family and went to a private school and never been to the hood I can see how many get hoodwinked ! :bandit:
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I like that talk ! That is real and I totally agree with all you said. I am going to be the gamer you can bet on that. As far as money goes $5 $10 here and there ok that is about all I do. I am not a sucker and will not be dishing out jack. They know when i come other than dinner and hanging out is all I am giving.
Hell , that is just the dating scene everywhere never assume you are the only 1 that is the number 1 rule in the book. I am sure they have others and if they are gamers then I will not have lost nothing. I will gain experience in a new country and sight see and have a great story to tell when I come back. 1 thing is for sure I will not be played and come back broke from buying cueros and taking them back to my room and getting set up.
Thanks for that advice ! :beard:
I like that talk ! That is real and I totally agree with all you said. I am going to be the gamer you can bet on that. As far as money goes $5 $10 here and there ok that is about all I do. I am not a sucker and will not be dishing out jack. They know when i come other than dinner and hanging out is all I am giving.
Hell , that is just the dating scene everywhere never assume you are the only 1 that is the number 1 rule in the book. I am sure they have others and if they are gamers then I will not have lost nothing. I will gain experience in a new country and sight see and have a great story to tell when I come back. 1 thing is for sure I will not be played and come back broke from buying cueros and taking them back to my room and getting set up.
Thanks for that advice ! :beard:
Love does not work these way. This is how you choose to buy a car asking people which is better a Ford or a Dodge, but a life partner can't be chosen like this. You say you are a father why not just focus on being the BEST dad on the planet and believe a good woman will come along one day, but you can't rush it. PLEASE do not go to the DR for a woman, girlfriend or a wife because you will see everything is great in the beginning and after time past these women will show their true colors.
I have talked many African American men not going to DR for women because I do not want them taken advantage of and Dominican women will do just that. If you continue on this path to find love in your life, it won't end well for you. I am not trying to "pour salt" on your vacation but you need to LOSE this course of actions REALLY.
Why not go to the islands next door Puerto Rico or Jamaica and just enjoy the islands. If a woman see that you are there on more then one occasion just being a typical tourist, you might have real good chance landing a decent partner in PR or Jamaica, but if they see you are just a " half ass" horny gringo or yankee with island fever, the only women you land are the ones you should avoid.
Take my advise Jamaican women make much better partners for African American men then Dominican women( and they run faster too LOL). Jamaica has some very nice women and they will have more in common with you because of the ancestry you share. It is very very very important to have some common ground with you partner otherwise you will be come a person " married to a total stranger"
I understand you may or may not be lonely, but what is a million time worst is being married and lonely. Finding the right woman to married is a very important choice a man can make and it shoul not come down to which woman sounds better on paper.
BTW Most of the time I say" good luck" but not this time because I do not want you to have success in this endeavor, because if it works for you other men might believe this is the best way to find a wife and we can't have that.
BUT I will say "Enjoy your trip"
I have talked many African American men not going to DR for women because I do not want them taken advantage of and Dominican women will do just that. If you continue on this path to find love in your life, it won't end well for you. I am not trying to "pour salt" on your vacation but you need to LOSE this course of actions REALLY.
Why not go to the islands next door Puerto Rico or Jamaica and just enjoy the islands. If a woman see that you are there on more then one occasion just being a typical tourist, you might have real good chance landing a decent partner in PR or Jamaica, but if they see you are just a " half ass" horny gringo or yankee with island fever, the only women you land are the ones you should avoid.
Take my advise Jamaican women make much better partners for African American men then Dominican women( and they run faster too LOL). Jamaica has some very nice women and they will have more in common with you because of the ancestry you share. It is very very very important to have some common ground with you partner otherwise you will be come a person " married to a total stranger"
I understand you may or may not be lonely, but what is a million time worst is being married and lonely. Finding the right woman to married is a very important choice a man can make and it shoul not come down to which woman sounds better on paper.
BTW Most of the time I say" good luck" but not this time because I do not want you to have success in this endeavor, because if it works for you other men might believe this is the best way to find a wife and we can't have that.
BUT I will say "Enjoy your trip"
This is beginning to sound more like a challenge ! Many of the Dominicans are of Afrikan heritage my amigo. It is just suppressed in this country. I have seen many who are blk but prefer to be called hispanic some even put caucasion?? I have read the history and strife between Hatians and the DR side. The truth is they are all the same people. The true people of the land the Indians all pretty much all wiped out. Everyone there with the exception of a few who mixed with German or British are black with a mix of other cultures that came to the country during history. Don't forget France.
One more thing that is not "game" in DR it is just NONSENSE. I have never in my life heard any Puerto Rican woman, African American woman use the sick mother or grandmother routine like you will hear many times if you make the Dominican Republic your home away from Florida
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Just a small quick 5 day excursion is all. I will be in Santo Domingo mainly. I found the Northside to have more cueros than the south side. Santo Domingo is where I have talked to most of the working class woman who go to school as well , and their conversation is not of sex. As a matter of fact 1 of the mujers I will see gets ****ed when I mention sex to her. I just test the water to see how they respond. As to others you mention sex and their eyes light up like "cuando cuando cuando" . You have to read between the lines amigos.
Just a small quick 5 day excursion is all. I will be in Santo Domingo mainly. I found the Northside to have more cueros than the south side. Santo Domingo is where I have talked to most of the working class woman who go to school as well , and their conversation is not of sex. As a matter of fact 1 of the mujers I will see gets ****ed when I mention sex to her. I just test the water to see how they respond. As to others you mention sex and their eyes light up like "cuando cuando cuando" . You have to read between the lines amigos.
Crockett, "sisters" here have a much higher motivation to improve their game. It is called Survival. Lions and tigers at the zoo sure look dangerous, but they eat every day. Try the same lion in the jungle after not having eaten for 4 days, and you get the picture.
My mother is African American and my father is Puerto Rican and I have daughter with a Mexican woman and one with a Dominican woman, so I can tell you about all the people of color in and around the USA.
Dominicans will do things that will make you just sit back and shake your head because you won't be able to believe what just came out of their mouths or what you just witness. Puerto Ricans, AA, and Mexicans are CRAZY as HELL lol, but very normal. Dominicans strange I can't explain it:
Do you know when they say " I can't tell you what "pornography" is but I know it when I see it. That is what it is like in DR you can't explain majority of what goes on in DR, but you know it is abnormal behavior.
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