Let me first start by saying ? ?I am a fool?.
I already know this ? so everyone who reads this post please, save yourself the trouble.
I?m 35 ? came to Puerto Plata over Christmas with 3 other girls to enjoy the sun, sand, you know, to relax.
Never expected to be hit on so much by the locals (hotel staff local Dominicans). Was nice change from life in Canada.
I?m mulatto, with a sorta JLO body and long curly hair.
I?m also engaged.
Was fully expecting my 3 other girlfriends (blondes) to get picked up, not me? turns out, none of them hooked up ? but I did.
By the way, if someone could explain this phenomenon to me, I?d greatly appreciate it ?. I thought ALL men loved blondes. My friend?s egos took some MAJOR damage.
Mine, on the other hand, was greatly restored.
Anyway, met a GEORGEOUS guy ?staff at the hotel? invited me to the Disco in Puerto Plata. Kept saying no ? finally went, we hooked up and it was AMAZING. (ALWAYS, safe sex).
That was it really ? I learned a little bit about his life ? he has a kid - baby girl - (do all DR men have kids before they are 30?) and is ?separated? ?
I wish he hadn?t told me about himself ? because I started to CARE about him. That?s where they hit you ? every time.
I was warned he was a player ? BUT I COULDN?T RESIST HIM!
Anyway, we said our goodbyes; I sent him an email when I got back ? never heard from him.
OK ? Thanks for the memories.
About 2 weeks after I got back, he called.
He was sweet.
He asked for money? I knew it was only a matter of time.
Maybe it was still too soon after the trip ? I don?t know ? I just kept remembering how AMAZING the sex was and I thought? ok ? ?this guy earns, in a month, what I earn in a DAY! Why not just send him the money and leave it at that. If I never hear from him again, so be it.?
Well, it looks like I will never hear from him again?
I called him to make sure he got the money ok and he was really sweet and thankful. I was just glad to help ? honestly I was ? I know his life is hard.
He said he?d call but he hasn?t since.
I called him today just to make sure he got the stuff he needed to buy ? got his voicemail ? left a message ? will be the last one.
I?m SUCH a loser? I honestly thought maybe I could help this guy out?he?s super handsome, smart, sweet and maybe, could have helped him start a better life?not necessarily with me but doing something other than working in a hotel. I was prepared to help him for the long haul and he blew it.
My girlfriends, (after they mocked me for hours) told me that, when people are poor, I mean REALLY poor, they only see how to survive in the ?NOW?? meaning ? he say the opportunity, took it and ran. They said I should be thankful this didn?t go on for months or years ?.
I know they?re right ?
Too bad really ? I actually wanted to help this person ? he kind of awakened a new ?passion? in me I didn?t know was there.
He actually made my relationship back home ?better??.
So why can?t I stop thinking about him?
I already know this ? so everyone who reads this post please, save yourself the trouble.
I?m 35 ? came to Puerto Plata over Christmas with 3 other girls to enjoy the sun, sand, you know, to relax.
Never expected to be hit on so much by the locals (hotel staff local Dominicans). Was nice change from life in Canada.
I?m mulatto, with a sorta JLO body and long curly hair.
I?m also engaged.
Was fully expecting my 3 other girlfriends (blondes) to get picked up, not me? turns out, none of them hooked up ? but I did.
By the way, if someone could explain this phenomenon to me, I?d greatly appreciate it ?. I thought ALL men loved blondes. My friend?s egos took some MAJOR damage.
Mine, on the other hand, was greatly restored.
Anyway, met a GEORGEOUS guy ?staff at the hotel? invited me to the Disco in Puerto Plata. Kept saying no ? finally went, we hooked up and it was AMAZING. (ALWAYS, safe sex).
That was it really ? I learned a little bit about his life ? he has a kid - baby girl - (do all DR men have kids before they are 30?) and is ?separated? ?
I wish he hadn?t told me about himself ? because I started to CARE about him. That?s where they hit you ? every time.
I was warned he was a player ? BUT I COULDN?T RESIST HIM!
Anyway, we said our goodbyes; I sent him an email when I got back ? never heard from him.
OK ? Thanks for the memories.
About 2 weeks after I got back, he called.
He was sweet.
He asked for money? I knew it was only a matter of time.
Maybe it was still too soon after the trip ? I don?t know ? I just kept remembering how AMAZING the sex was and I thought? ok ? ?this guy earns, in a month, what I earn in a DAY! Why not just send him the money and leave it at that. If I never hear from him again, so be it.?
Well, it looks like I will never hear from him again?
I called him to make sure he got the money ok and he was really sweet and thankful. I was just glad to help ? honestly I was ? I know his life is hard.
He said he?d call but he hasn?t since.
I called him today just to make sure he got the stuff he needed to buy ? got his voicemail ? left a message ? will be the last one.
I?m SUCH a loser? I honestly thought maybe I could help this guy out?he?s super handsome, smart, sweet and maybe, could have helped him start a better life?not necessarily with me but doing something other than working in a hotel. I was prepared to help him for the long haul and he blew it.
My girlfriends, (after they mocked me for hours) told me that, when people are poor, I mean REALLY poor, they only see how to survive in the ?NOW?? meaning ? he say the opportunity, took it and ran. They said I should be thankful this didn?t go on for months or years ?.
I know they?re right ?
Too bad really ? I actually wanted to help this person ? he kind of awakened a new ?passion? in me I didn?t know was there.
He actually made my relationship back home ?better??.
So why can?t I stop thinking about him?