A dear aunt of mine (by marriage) went back to DR on vacation. She was an older WOMAN- married before, had three grown sons. Beautiful lady. So she goes back to DR to visit her mother, spend a month etc.
she runs into an OOOOOLD "boyfriend" that was never allowed to really be. Her father, who was a spaniard got wind of the relationship when she was a mere 17yrs old, packed her up IN ONE DAY and sent to to live in spain with other aunts so she could forget and get far away from this "loser" who her dad did NOT approve of. This young man was a gorgeous morenito, suave talking, THE WORKS, but was a good for nothing, always looking for a quick fix, get rich quick scheme, not a hard working man. Long story short, she married in between, had her kids, lived in the US for 30ys.....
back to my first paragraph...... they guy totally professed his love, how she was his everything still, for 2years that she would go back to see her mother, he was THERE like a bad rash, she NEVER called him, MUCHO MENOS sent money, this is a strong, hard working, well to do beautiful lady. After two years of him insisting and sending messages with friends and family, on a trip she broke down and gave in. He stated he had no desire to move to the US, that they could be happy in DR (beware, THIS is the reverse psycology ladies), that they didnt need to be in the US to be happy....4 months after being married he says to her "baby, mejor no vamos a ser una mejor vida alla".....mind u, they had a perfectly nice life in DR, she had money, he was working, they were living VERY comfortably. She starts the paper work, got him here in about 5 months flat, no kidding, QUICK PROCESS, he paid for everything (mostly). Came here to her apartment here etc etc, looked for work.................
EXACTLY on the day that he made a MONTH in this country- she came home from work to find a note from him - "gracias por todo, yo nunca te quise, pero agradesco lo que hiciste por mi, nos veremos algun dia".......... ran off to PA after his woman who had came ahead to the US about a year before......mustve been a sweet encounter.
Point??? That not just the resort workers are sankies, there are sankies ANYWHERE and of ANY age.
SO if a woman with much experience and mentally sound was sanktified, even after years and years of turning a person down, beleive me, you will get it in two weeks vacation!!
she runs into an OOOOOLD "boyfriend" that was never allowed to really be. Her father, who was a spaniard got wind of the relationship when she was a mere 17yrs old, packed her up IN ONE DAY and sent to to live in spain with other aunts so she could forget and get far away from this "loser" who her dad did NOT approve of. This young man was a gorgeous morenito, suave talking, THE WORKS, but was a good for nothing, always looking for a quick fix, get rich quick scheme, not a hard working man. Long story short, she married in between, had her kids, lived in the US for 30ys.....
back to my first paragraph...... they guy totally professed his love, how she was his everything still, for 2years that she would go back to see her mother, he was THERE like a bad rash, she NEVER called him, MUCHO MENOS sent money, this is a strong, hard working, well to do beautiful lady. After two years of him insisting and sending messages with friends and family, on a trip she broke down and gave in. He stated he had no desire to move to the US, that they could be happy in DR (beware, THIS is the reverse psycology ladies), that they didnt need to be in the US to be happy....4 months after being married he says to her "baby, mejor no vamos a ser una mejor vida alla".....mind u, they had a perfectly nice life in DR, she had money, he was working, they were living VERY comfortably. She starts the paper work, got him here in about 5 months flat, no kidding, QUICK PROCESS, he paid for everything (mostly). Came here to her apartment here etc etc, looked for work.................
EXACTLY on the day that he made a MONTH in this country- she came home from work to find a note from him - "gracias por todo, yo nunca te quise, pero agradesco lo que hiciste por mi, nos veremos algun dia".......... ran off to PA after his woman who had came ahead to the US about a year before......mustve been a sweet encounter.
Point??? That not just the resort workers are sankies, there are sankies ANYWHERE and of ANY age.
SO if a woman with much experience and mentally sound was sanktified, even after years and years of turning a person down, beleive me, you will get it in two weeks vacation!!