Hombre said:I heard a lot of Dominican men are bi.
americangirl said:Is this true??? I know many Dominican men, especially those that work at resorts are alittle bit more effeminate. But, are they really bi?
americangirl said:.... But, are they really bi?
This is just not true at all. At least not when it refers to a lot of proud and decent Dominicans. Sankies, sure.Hombre said:I heard a lot of Dominican men are bi.
jrzyguy said:i know someone in the BC area who fits that discription to a tee...but he is VERY nice and very friendly. (if you know what i mean)
*****No, I don't know that you mean, my friend is a very well-to do and respected person and he would not be caught dead "hanging" out with a tourist known to go to the DR to get his "kicks". *****
and if he IS going for a sexcapade...is he any worse than many of the straight chica chasers and female chica chasers?
*****Listen, if he going to go and be a "John", more power to him but don't fricking come to a DR site flaunting it, asking on how to get a man!.*****
Believe if of not, there are SOME Dominicans that are annoyed when a person only think of their country as a country where they can just go, bang whomever crosses their paths, old or young, and then go home.
All I am saying is that sex predators should stay in their home countries and mess up their own "backyards".
Btw, in case you have not noticed, this guy is looking for anyone. First he was asking about bisexual Dominicans and on his last post, he is asking about a "bugarron". Yo do the math on how desperate this guy is since just about ANYBODY would do!.
jrzyguy said:All i am trying to say. Is that rather than bash a toursit going there for the first time...politelty suggest that there are other things to do in the dr. If you dont like his post (and i dont think it was all too much)...just let it be.
*****Politely?. If a person comes to a site just asking about how to find a man, whether is a female or a male, there's no doubt in ANYBODY's mind that he is NOT interested in anything other than sex. Maybe I did not read the part were he said: "I heard that the DR is beautiful, I would love to see it for myself and I hope that can meet some friendly Dominicans since I have heard that they are so nice".
Now let me ask you something and it has nothing to do with the poster:
Suppose that you have 4 underage kids and a pedophile moves right next door to you, how "polite" would you be if one day you come home and he is playing catch with your 4 kids in the backyard?.*****
oh...and again..there are plenty of upstanding dominican men in the DR who are most certainly willing and want to hang out with travelers. Most are affraid to do much there on their own.
*****Like I said before, people WILL get what they are looking for, as long as they are looking in the "right" places. I am not stupid (shut up AZB, I am not) and I know that there are gay and bi people in all social classes in the DR. *****
Hope i havent come off as too pushy in this thread. Just thought i would try to explain the "other" side :cheeky:
*****Not pushy at all. But let's get something straight:
Whatever consenting adults do, it's their business but just keep it to yourself. I know that many, here, do the same as the OP wants to do and those people see nothing wrong with it but on the same token, there are members that do not find it too amusing when someone basically says: "I am going to your country just to meet a man, some men or a bugarron for sex".*****
You know, La barbie is always saying that there's a double standard, here on DR1, and that when a woman asks a question similar to the OP's, that she is labeled a whore and such. She is right.
Here, in DR1, we have what I call a "true member" and a "passing by" member.
A "true member" is one who registers, posts a "hi all, my name is" thread, contributes with information and advices (whether we agree with them or not) and stays for years.
A "passing by" member are those that all they want to do is ask a question, stay for a while or until they get the answer that they want to hear and then goes away and forgets that DR1 even exists.
Care to guess which one is the OP?. Give me your answer in about 1 year but let me give you a little hint:
The OP have 3 posts, all on this thread and I am yet to see a "hi" on any of them, he went straight "for the kill".
jrzyguy said:I hear ya miguel. And while i agree on some things (especialy about the stealth posters who bluntly ask about certain things)..i have to respectfuly disagree on a couple of things.
I have been contacted by DR1 members and other friends...who when traveling to nyc want to know where the best bars and clubs are etc (and they are NOT going for good music...but rather for the best cruising)
*****. Well, the difference is that those members are not asking you, straight out, where they can met people for sex. See, if anybody, ANYBODY, asks me where they can find people for sex, my reply to them would be: "who in hell do you think I am, a fricking pimp, get a life you axx-hole". Now, if they ask me about a club but with a "hidden agenda", I don't care since I know that anything can happen, anywhere*****
I find it interesting tho...that you didnt reply to anything about my story about my first experience in DR and how that opened every thing up for me there.
*****As I said before, whatever consenting adults do with their lives, that's their problem. But let me ask you so you see that there's nothing interesting about me not commenting on your first trip:
Did you, before going to the DR for the first time, come to DR1 and asked the members where to get a man for cheap sex?. If not, then the above statement applies. If yes, then I would had said the EXACT same thing to you also*****.
shad, a "blast from the past".shadInToronto said:IF his only purpose for visiting the DR is 'economical' sex, there may other destinations where he may get 'more' for his money. There are too many other attractions to captivate someone truly interested in the beauty of the DR ... climate, beach, natural greenery, people, etc.