it's not the Sankies, it's the Cougars who employ them..
This will not happen.
There are Men and Women who don't equate their failure to attract the opposite sex to any action or lack, thereof on their part. These people will never find happiness in romantic liasons because they don't take responsibility for themselves on the most basic level.
I have seen otherwise unattractive people find a style which suits them and complimants whatever their best features might be, maximizing their physicality by eating right and taking care of themselves, paying attention to detail until they become attractive. We have all seen physically attractive people lose all their grace and beauty as soon as they open their mouths as well as those who simply "let themselves go" at relatively young ages.
I don't think our OP will return because she won't like what she sees in the mirror. Of course villifying some opportunistic, undereducated young Man with only one skill is her way of shifting the blame for her condition. He has served not only as a physical therapist but also as her emotional therapist and his compensation was well deserved.
She can now take the well deserved and very expensive lesson which she learned and begin a search for the real beauty which lies under her surface, amplify it and compliment it with a proper approach to nutrition and exercise and a positive attitude. After a few months of work on this she will have recouped the money she spent on this lesson and can use it to buy a (smaller) wardrobe to compliment her improved physique. This small self gratifying gesture will inspire her to keep up the good work and continue her self improvement and as her physical and emotional self assessment appreciates and her waistline depreciates she can plan her next vacation...this time taking her sand to the beach with her. This is the only realistic path if she wishes to continue to live the dream even after the vacation is over.
Most, sadly will continue down the same path, complaining about how they get "taken advantage of" and not doing a damn thing to alter the paradigm. That's why there are "Sankies".
...Hopefully you have enough money left in your sankified bank account to join the gym, take off that baby fat, and find a nice guy back home..
This will not happen.
There are Men and Women who don't equate their failure to attract the opposite sex to any action or lack, thereof on their part. These people will never find happiness in romantic liasons because they don't take responsibility for themselves on the most basic level.
I have seen otherwise unattractive people find a style which suits them and complimants whatever their best features might be, maximizing their physicality by eating right and taking care of themselves, paying attention to detail until they become attractive. We have all seen physically attractive people lose all their grace and beauty as soon as they open their mouths as well as those who simply "let themselves go" at relatively young ages.
I don't think our OP will return because she won't like what she sees in the mirror. Of course villifying some opportunistic, undereducated young Man with only one skill is her way of shifting the blame for her condition. He has served not only as a physical therapist but also as her emotional therapist and his compensation was well deserved.
She can now take the well deserved and very expensive lesson which she learned and begin a search for the real beauty which lies under her surface, amplify it and compliment it with a proper approach to nutrition and exercise and a positive attitude. After a few months of work on this she will have recouped the money she spent on this lesson and can use it to buy a (smaller) wardrobe to compliment her improved physique. This small self gratifying gesture will inspire her to keep up the good work and continue her self improvement and as her physical and emotional self assessment appreciates and her waistline depreciates she can plan her next vacation...this time taking her sand to the beach with her. This is the only realistic path if she wishes to continue to live the dream even after the vacation is over.
Most, sadly will continue down the same path, complaining about how they get "taken advantage of" and not doing a damn thing to alter the paradigm. That's why there are "Sankies".