MikeKO, "girlfriends" are a difficult thing
I think that I am too old fashioned, and beyond knowing that that chick you bed the second night is not the "love of your life" I don't think there is much beyond "Go slowly" that I can tell you.
Sorry buddy, but in the DR family is foremost in most everything.
If things get serious, you will be taken home. You will be grilled.
Good luck
HB