no
i guess the first time i saw her she was doing a strip show with the lady i was f%*king. They were doing a show together for a pride event. It was lust at first sight.....10 years later we started dating as both of us were in other relationships on and off etc....
One of my girlfriends reminded me that when i saw my now wife preforming on stage this time not stripping but singing and playing bass at a dyke march, i said "i am going to marry her one day." i don't really remember saying that but my ex sure does