I posted to reply on the successful relationship thread initially. I feel that it would better suite this thread. When I read your the replies on that threadit gave me some hope. I am currently in a ld relationship with a Dominican. I want to come for a visit but my family and friends (and thier American Superiority Complex) gives me pause. Everytime I make up my mind to just say F*** it and go, they convince me otherwise. They feel that it is 3rd world country and he will chop me into little pieces or there is too much political unrest or whatever thier stupid reasoning is for that day. They feel that he is lying to me about who he is ect etc. I have been on the outskirts of this site reading the posts and trying to come to a decision. I really do love him, but my family is very important to me. I normally am far more decisive then this but it is a different country and I do not know anyone but him. Truthfully I'm worried too but I always think why would he kill me what sense would that make? I'm just frustrated and undecided. Have there been any instance where an American is murdered by a Dominican whiel visiting. I laugh just writing this, I tell them thier way of thinking is so Arrogant and small-minded. My mother always refers to Dominicans as those people...
I just don't know what to do. By the way he is not a sankie in any way shape or form. He is very well educated and has aprofessional job, so your sarcastic comments, you can leave unwritten. I would appreciate that. I am not lokking for someone to make my decision for me, I'm just trying to see if anyone took thier trip alone? How was that? Did you fell comfortable by yourself? Thanks
I just don't know what to do. By the way he is not a sankie in any way shape or form. He is very well educated and has aprofessional job, so your sarcastic comments, you can leave unwritten. I would appreciate that. I am not lokking for someone to make my decision for me, I'm just trying to see if anyone took thier trip alone? How was that? Did you fell comfortable by yourself? Thanks