I think he thinks this is a chat room or something...
G-Man, post everything in one post please!
I’m a gringo, 27 years old, living on an island in the Caribbean. Met a 29 year old Dominicana (three kids, I’m not the father). We are living together for a year now. Some time ago she got pregnant. Since that moment she completely changed.. which can happen when you get pregnant.
Now she’s starting to get herself together, but the way she responses to me changed completely… She wants to get her other kids to this Island (Which is good imo), we are preparing to get married…(prenup and I want to have 50/50 authority for the newborn). ]None of the above seems to be a problem. I know part of her family, they seem very nice to me, so no problem over there She works in a hotel (bar), 6 days a week. I work in an office, 5 days a week. She told me a great story about how everything went wrong in the past and how she, eventually, got over here. Good thing is that she never requests me for money, she works and she is self providing (until a certain level).On the other hand… she tends to not do very much in the household (laundry/cooking and things like that). So the question is… will she be a good spouse? Furthermore, seeing that the other kids are separated from her, another question arises… Will she be a good mother for my kid? Does anyone know whether it is normal to leave your own kids in DR, and travel to another Country to make money and send the money home to the kids/family? Imo it’s not good for the kids to be separated from their mom for a considerable amount of time… Anyone experience in situations like this
Conclusively… I’m asking myself the following question.. Am I being paranoid or do I have reasons to question some of the characteristics of this situation?
Any help/opinions would be appreciated!