If he were your son would you tell him the samething. Life we be VERY difficult for him in the DR, hell its difficult for people who has been there all their lives. I tell many people this about the DR as far as comparing. Go to Panama City Panama first, then go to Santo Domingo or Santiago then go to San Juan Puerto Rico. Now you are ready decide on the country best suited for you. The Dominican Republic is very hard.Smooth, you are young, if you never fail then you will never do anything great. If you fail but have tried then you have grown in many ways. If you try and succeed then you yourself are a success, and that is all anyone can ask for from life. Never fail because you didn't try, that can be the biggest regret of all, and never ever take what someone says he knows on a computer as being a reality, one thing you will notice within a few weeks of arrival, there are more actors in the Republic than in Hollywood, everyone knows something about nothing and not a lot about what they may tell you.
Make it your own, have fun, use your head, keep to who you are,never try to integrate into Dominican mentality and you have a good chance of being one of the stubborn few who refused to be be beaten by the place. All the best and good luck to the both of you.
I know for a fact a lot of people who chose to live in DR are now very unhappy, but they put all their "eggs in one basket" now there stuck. I will say it again the DR is very hard.
The partys and the women eventually stops in the DR and reality kicks in and it kicks hard as HELL!!!!