It seems to me that all Sankies can't be the same. Some are nicer, some are mean, some are good dancers and others are maybe more talented in bed. Some may make a better appearance in public, better at showing you a good time, more respectable. Why don't you ladies help eachother out with recommendations or warnings. If you can get past the jealousy and personal attachment wouldn't it be a good idea to let others know about him when you leave. Sort of a better business bureau, a registry of complaints. Tell us about your Sankie, use a fake name of course, but give us a few hints. Would that be a good service. Remember the Truth is a complete defense to Libel, though not too sure about that law in the DR. Might be good therapy too.