So much great info here! So yes, I am new here....leaving later this week for my 3rd trip in 1 1/2 years to the DR. My son is living there, so I have to keep returning to see and do things I didn't get to do last time! This time I am trying to plan on being independent...(he does need to work..) hard to do when my son thinks none of my ideas are safe! Seeking balance- as always! Thanks for such a great resource!