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A big age difference starting out could work out fine. If still together after a few years is when it may be an issue.
I will give an example. When I lived in the DR I was in my 40's. Not one man, Dominican or otherwise, showed and interest in me. I ended up only being with men in their 20's. In the US I never would have even thought about that.
I am still in contact with a few of the men I saw frequently. They say they are interested in me returning to spend time with them. < wink wink> Now I am in my late 60's and they are in their 40's. I tell them no thanks. I am not the young woman you knew back then. I do not have half the energy to keep up with them now. They are all great memories. I wouldn't change a thing. Those times are best left in the past. IF I was to take any of them up on their offers it would ruin the fantasy of how they THINK the reunion would be.
So look at what the age difference will be in 20 or 30 years and ask yourself will your energy levels match? Will love overcome all the difference then?
I pass no judgments on the choices anyone makes in consenting adult relationships.
I will give an example. When I lived in the DR I was in my 40's. Not one man, Dominican or otherwise, showed and interest in me. I ended up only being with men in their 20's. In the US I never would have even thought about that.
I am still in contact with a few of the men I saw frequently. They say they are interested in me returning to spend time with them. < wink wink> Now I am in my late 60's and they are in their 40's. I tell them no thanks. I am not the young woman you knew back then. I do not have half the energy to keep up with them now. They are all great memories. I wouldn't change a thing. Those times are best left in the past. IF I was to take any of them up on their offers it would ruin the fantasy of how they THINK the reunion would be.
So look at what the age difference will be in 20 or 30 years and ask yourself will your energy levels match? Will love overcome all the difference then?
I pass no judgments on the choices anyone makes in consenting adult relationships.
If some cases what will the age difference be like in 10 years when the pot bellied old gringo is using a cane to walk and the much younger Dominicana is running off to the gym to workout. At night the old gizzard is snoring away and the young princess is shaking her head..............
LOL, a Dominicano told me once after he asked me if I had an esposa and I said NO, he said don't get one. He said get yourself one, two, maybe three girlfriends and you will be very happy. The funny part was when he told me don't worry if they find out about each other because sometimes the girlfriends become friends.
What he said works just fine for me but I think there are some men who just can't stand the thought of living alone and prefer to buy the cow.
À younger woman keeps you in shape... Well that is what some say. So throw the cane en la leña
Very true.
I had a GF for a couple of years whose mother was the GF of a man who had another GF in the same area.
They disovered he was courting a third women, and they both went to meet her to make sure she was good enough for their BF.
Many, many women here accept other GF as a sign of virility, I suppose.
And how about the guys who have 12-14 kids with various women? I know a BUNCH of those.
I was talking to a Dominican friend about this yesterday. He said "well two people of the same age are definitely not going to work, you must have one old and one young. You have Arroz with Habichuelas, not Arroz with Arroz. You must have two things that are different or else it definitely won't work"
So that's sorted it. All comes back to Arroz and Habichuelas like most things in this country.
So that's sorted it. All comes back to Arroz and Habichuelas like most things in this country.
Male and female are about as different as can be. So stale bread and fresh meat will make a good sandwich? LOL
I had a neighbor in Puerto Plata who had two women living with him they walked down the street hand-in-hand-in-hand. All three of them on the moto wherever it went.
Der Fish
I brought the cow once and never again will i ever buy the cow...... I agree 3 different girlfriends is good and who cares if they find out.. I tell them excepted it or be gone... Im heartless.
Dinero
its all depends on your Budget... as for age i like the ladies at least 28 - 45 i don't like potty training the young ones... I would say at least to serious women in your life that except the fact that there will be others (cabana women)that come and go but they will not be serious anot know where you live.
its all depends on your Budget... as for age i like the ladies at least 28 - 45 i don't like potty training the young ones... I would say at least to serious women in your life that except the fact that there will be others (cabana women)that come and go but they will not be serious anot know where you live.