Woolfesback, out of respect for you, I will respond, however it is not an easy question to respond to.
I assume you are referring to our posts on DR1 and the lack of decorum here. If that is what you are referring to, then I guess I agree with you.
There seems to be no common decency here, with regard to our correspondence with one another. There are those who assume they know all, and they are most adamant about explaining to us how long they have lived here and how much they know, even though they don't seem to know much.
It is people who make many assumptions, based upon very little information, who give all DR1s a bad name.
Most of us here are just muddling through, doing the best we can, with our limited abilities. Some just seem to think they are better than the rest of us, and continually attempt to prove it.
Overall, I think most posters here are down-to-earth decent people, but unfortunately, there are those who seem to be determined to give the rest of us a bad name.
It's the same everywhere you go; if to the grocery to have some beers with friends , if to a social club or at work etc. always will find people who try to be smarter than others, I mean people that are the one that knows everything no matter they don't have an school degree but they will argue and will try to be the center of the conversation...Woolfesback, out of respect for you, I will respond, however it is not an easy question to respond to.
I assume you are referring to our posts on DR1 and the lack of decorum here. If that is what you are referring to, then I guess I agree with you.
There seems to be no common decency here, with regard to our correspondence with one another. There are those who assume they know all, and they are most adamant about explaining to us how long they have lived here and how much they know, even though they don't seem to know much.
It is people who make many assumptions, based upon very little information, who give all DR1s a bad name.
Most of us here are just muddling through, doing the best we can, with our limited abilities. Some just seem to think they are better than the rest of us, and continually attempt to prove it.
Overall, I think most posters here are down-to-earth decent people, but unfortunately, there are those who seem to be determined to give the rest of us a bad name.
Some truth here.To a certain degree, the anonymity of message boards enables people to say things they would never dare to say to people's faces. Most of us have done it, although some much more than others.
In general, there are certain behaviours by foreigners that Dominicans might consider rude or uncivilised. In our own countries we think nothing of walking into a waiting room, restaurant, elevator, bus etc. without meeting anyone's eye, whereas Dominicans will usually greet those present. The same way as somebody summoning a waiter by calling out PSSSSST! would be considered rude in our countries.
In both cases the hosts will understand that a newcomer is still learning the ropes - the real rudeness is when people who have been in the country for a while still ignore local conventions.
And although I wouldn't use the term "expat expert" there is certainly a lot that can be learned by an observer from outside, one who really interacts with the locals, that an insider does not register.
This is the best site available to answer any question anyone can possibly have about the DR-questions such as who, what and where.
The "why" will always be subjective, and up for conjecture from all sides.
There are those who know, those who don't, and those who only think they know.
But that is why we get on the plane to visit-to find out for ourselves.
In the end, the impressions we come away with are uniquely our own, colored by our own prejudices, biases and particular states of mind.
The best way to get the most out of this forum is also the best way to contribute-state the facts as you see them and don't take the negativity (or yourself) so seriously.
If you are wrong about something, there will be someone to correct you. If you are right about something, someone will be kind enough to give you some rep points.
Those who get upset and leave over some silly disagreement are only hurting themselves. Those who stay will learn more than they ever bargained for. Those who take the judgments of others to heart I suggest have some soul searching to do.
Help out as you have been helped, never forgetting it is our love of this flawed yet incredible country that drives our contributions to the site.
And along the way, through the arguments, cat fights, and name-calling, you will find yourself cultivating some incredible friendships that will last you a lifetime. It is these friendships that make participating on this site in whatever fashion worth dealing with the occasional heated discussion.
Ain't that the truth! I used to be surprised when a Dominican would tell me they read DR1. Now, it's commonplace for me. If they can understand English, chances are they read it.
What surprises me even more, are the ones who know who I am when they meet me.