So, I have returned, I posted a thread here not so long ago. (See the link on the bottom of this thread)
I didn't even bother to read the comments that I didn't already read. But I read the last comment and the guys said:"He didn't have 5 pesos for ice cream?"
Ok, maybe I wrote it all too confusing, or something....
OF COURSE he had 5 pesos for ice cream.
I don't see the reason, not to buy him ice-cream, just because he is Dominican.
"Oh, hun, I want ice cream, go and buy me some but if you want one you have to buy it yourself because you are Dominican, sorry, tough luck"
He bought me things as well, when I complained to be hungry, he went out to buy me something or looked for food in his house...
Anyways, I just wanted to update a little....
He is going to uni and has already gotten a job. That pays well considering that there is almost no work to find where he lives.
He has started to go more to the internet and send me more messages to my phone so I wont have to bare all the cost off calling/communicating.
He got the opportunity to go to Mexico and play baseball for money. (I know for sure it is true because my parents there confirmed it) But he denied it.
Cause you can never be sure on things like that and I want him to go to uni. I told him that if he wants to be with me, he has to work and go to uni (Way before he got the offer).
I was rather shocked about it cause I didn't know until I was told later about the offer and that he had denied it.
He is applying for a passport and soon I will send him an visitors visa invitation to my country. He will stay here for 3 months during his vacations. He wont have to pay the airline ticket, my parents will.
MY PARENTS ALSO PAID FOR MY BROTHERS GIRLFRIEND AIRLINE TICKETS WHEN SHE WAS VISITING HIM WHEN HE WAS STUDYING IN ANOTHER COUNTRY. My dad is a pilot and he gets special offers. So they are not paying for him cause he doesn't have the money. They are paying cause they would also do it if it was someone from my country or for example my brothers girlfriend. They would do it anyway even though he would be loaded with cash.
I am in no way going to send him money, I don't even know how to cause the western union thing or whatever.... we don't have that here. And I don't know if we have something similar.
I love the Dominican Republic, and I wouldn't mind living there. Not just because of him. I have thought about it over and over again.
When I finish school I am going to go there for another 1-2 years before I start working. I have a family there, I have the cutest little brothers. I have parents. I have the greatest friends in the whole wide world.
I feel so lucky that I have found another place in the world where I can say is my home.
Mi casa.
I admit, I might have acted a little naive and childish. But I understand your warnings. I have been trying to be more careful of what I do and say.
I have told him boundaries, given him rules. Stating clearly what I want and what I do not want in this relationship, what I am going to do and what I am not going to do. And what HE needs to do to help me be sure that he is not a player.
He got a little cranky because I told him that. Thinking that I didn't trust him 100%. But it's ok now. He understands. (Or at least I hope so :cheeky: )
Anyway, for the ones that are really confused.. here is my first thread http://www.dr1.com/forums/men-mars-women-venus/76591-my-relationship.html
(Maybe I wrote some errors and other things when I was angry/ in a hurry, sorry for that)
I will come in here again, just not a lot cause I have crazy job hours and I am starting my college next Tuesday. I will be on business/commercial track and I will have a lot of things to do. But once in a while I will give updates, for the ones that still believe that there are better guys that sanky pankys out there and want to know about others, to compare their relationship with.
Adios!
I didn't even bother to read the comments that I didn't already read. But I read the last comment and the guys said:"He didn't have 5 pesos for ice cream?"
Ok, maybe I wrote it all too confusing, or something....
OF COURSE he had 5 pesos for ice cream.
I don't see the reason, not to buy him ice-cream, just because he is Dominican.
"Oh, hun, I want ice cream, go and buy me some but if you want one you have to buy it yourself because you are Dominican, sorry, tough luck"
He bought me things as well, when I complained to be hungry, he went out to buy me something or looked for food in his house...
Anyways, I just wanted to update a little....
He is going to uni and has already gotten a job. That pays well considering that there is almost no work to find where he lives.
He has started to go more to the internet and send me more messages to my phone so I wont have to bare all the cost off calling/communicating.
He got the opportunity to go to Mexico and play baseball for money. (I know for sure it is true because my parents there confirmed it) But he denied it.
Cause you can never be sure on things like that and I want him to go to uni. I told him that if he wants to be with me, he has to work and go to uni (Way before he got the offer).
I was rather shocked about it cause I didn't know until I was told later about the offer and that he had denied it.
He is applying for a passport and soon I will send him an visitors visa invitation to my country. He will stay here for 3 months during his vacations. He wont have to pay the airline ticket, my parents will.
MY PARENTS ALSO PAID FOR MY BROTHERS GIRLFRIEND AIRLINE TICKETS WHEN SHE WAS VISITING HIM WHEN HE WAS STUDYING IN ANOTHER COUNTRY. My dad is a pilot and he gets special offers. So they are not paying for him cause he doesn't have the money. They are paying cause they would also do it if it was someone from my country or for example my brothers girlfriend. They would do it anyway even though he would be loaded with cash.
I am in no way going to send him money, I don't even know how to cause the western union thing or whatever.... we don't have that here. And I don't know if we have something similar.
I love the Dominican Republic, and I wouldn't mind living there. Not just because of him. I have thought about it over and over again.
When I finish school I am going to go there for another 1-2 years before I start working. I have a family there, I have the cutest little brothers. I have parents. I have the greatest friends in the whole wide world.
I feel so lucky that I have found another place in the world where I can say is my home.
Mi casa.
I admit, I might have acted a little naive and childish. But I understand your warnings. I have been trying to be more careful of what I do and say.
I have told him boundaries, given him rules. Stating clearly what I want and what I do not want in this relationship, what I am going to do and what I am not going to do. And what HE needs to do to help me be sure that he is not a player.
He got a little cranky because I told him that. Thinking that I didn't trust him 100%. But it's ok now. He understands. (Or at least I hope so :cheeky: )
Anyway, for the ones that are really confused.. here is my first thread http://www.dr1.com/forums/men-mars-women-venus/76591-my-relationship.html
(Maybe I wrote some errors and other things when I was angry/ in a hurry, sorry for that)
I will come in here again, just not a lot cause I have crazy job hours and I am starting my college next Tuesday. I will be on business/commercial track and I will have a lot of things to do. But once in a while I will give updates, for the ones that still believe that there are better guys that sanky pankys out there and want to know about others, to compare their relationship with.
Adios!