For that matter is there such a thing as that endless all embrasing love we?ve been conditioned to believe in? I hope there is.. but the evidence is proving me wrong..
You "just" (I know, easier said than done) have to find the right person, and treat them the way you like to be treated...everything else follows...
But the real question is where do you find this kind of thing? I've looked. Then people say it happens when your not looking. So I stopped looking and its still not happening. But the dream, I guess, is better than nothing!!
Jan, you're beautiful, funny, and smart. Someday, someone is going to come along and sweep you off your feet. Until then, relax, have fun, and enjoy being single...there are worse things than being single, like being with the wrong man, for the wrong reasons. Be glad that you have more sense than that!