To me the DR1 forum is ilke going into a neighborhood bar like Cheers. If newcomers butts in and try and tries start a conversation about the neighborhood by asking a question or making a statement they may get some rough answers back as usually the regulars have discussed the subject to death. Or if the question involves a lack of character (like trying to get out of child support) then you will get some comments on your responsibilies. One cannot expect to get free advice in the way that they want. The moderators are like the bartender/bouncer. If you don't like the atmosphere then leave or don't come in.