Don't take it personal LaLouve. I was just in a sarcastic mood and that word 'sommelier' just jumped out for me.
Good he is gone because a real sommelier would never impose in such a way on a customer, he can suggest another wine based on his knowledge in a friendly, calm manner. A real sommelier can do that because he knows his wines, is experienced and is passionate about them. So the guy you describing and with his behavior, I would hardly describe him as a sommelier hence the remark, you gave him too much credit and I am sorry he spoiled your evening.
Not to worry, Acira, I understood your short comment. I should have put that sommelier into brackets. Have an excellent day.